Settle-Wilder Funeral Home and Cremation Service

01/30/2026

Friday Funeral Fact: Funeral processions date back centuries, created to publicly honor the dead and allow the community to acknowledge a life lost. Headlights were once required so other drivers could easily recognize the procession, show respect, and yield—turning an ordinary road into a shared moment of remembrance.

01/27/2026

01/27/2026

How Funeral Homes Support Families After Services Conclude

A funeral doesn’t end when the service is over. For many families, that’s when the quiet begins—and when support still matters most. Funeral homes often continue helping by providing guidance on next steps, sharing grief resources, assisting with paperwork, and checking in during the weeks and months that follow.

That ongoing care helps families feel supported as they begin adjusting to life after loss, reminding them they don’t have to navigate the journey alone.

01/23/2026

Friday Funeral Fact: In some traditions, placing a loved one’s shoes on a casket symbolizes the journey they’ve walked in life—and the path now completed. It’s a quiet, personal gesture that honors where they’ve been, the miles they traveled, and the life they lived.

01/22/2026

Big Joe's Subs

01/22/2026

Today, Big Joe welcomed Settle-Wilder Funeral Home, Timothy Gibbons with the honor of new signage at the sub shop. The best lunch in town!! Big Joe's Subs is our go to for lunch!

01/20/2026

Why Planning Ahead Can Be a Gift to Loved Ones

Planning ahead isn’t about dwelling on the end—it’s about caring for the people you love. When wishes are clearly documented in advance, families are spared from making difficult decisions during an already emotional time.

By planning ahead, you offer clarity, guidance, and peace of mind. It’s a thoughtful way to reduce stress, avoid uncertainty, and ensure your life is honored in a way that truly reflects your values.

01/16/2026

Friday Funeral Fact: Memorial guest books have been part of funeral traditions for generations, offering a written record of those who came to honor a life. Today, digital guest books allow friends and family from anywhere in the world to share memories, messages, and photos—creating a living tribute that continues long after the service ends.

01/13/2026

Why Timing Matters in Funeral Planning

Coordinating clergy, cemetery schedules, and family needs often happens within a very short timeframe. Thoughtful timing helps ensure traditions are honored and loved ones can gather without feeling rushed.

An experienced funeral director helps manage these details and keep everything moving smoothly, allowing families to focus on remembering, reflecting, and supporting one another.

01/09/2026

Friday Funeral Fact: Food has long played a role in mourning across cultures because sharing a meal offers comfort when words fall short. Whether it’s a formal gathering or a simple dish brought by a neighbor, food creates connection, routine, and care during times of loss—reminding people they are not alone as they grieve.

01/06/2026

Grief doesn’t always look like tears or visible sadness. For many people, it shows up as deep exhaustion—mental, emotional, and physical. Grieving requires constant adjustment, decision-making, and emotional processing, all of which can drain energy in ways people don’t expect.

If you or someone you love feels unusually tired after a loss, it’s not a sign of weakness—it’s a natural response to carrying a heavy emotional load. Rest, patience, and compassion are often just as important as words during this time.