01/31/2022
What is Spirituality?
Spirituality involves the recognition of a feeling or sense or belief that there is
something greater than myself, something more to being human than sensory
experience, and that the greater whole of which we are part is cosmic or divine in
nature.
Spirituality means knowing that our lives have significance in a context beyond a
mundane everyday existence at the level of biological needs that drive selfishness
and aggression. It means knowing that we are a significant part of a purposeful
unfolding of Life in our universe.
Spirituality involves exploring certain universal themes – love, compassion, altruism,
life after death, wisdom and truth, with the knowledge that some people such as
saints or enlightened individuals have achieved and manifested higher levels of
development than the ordinary person. Aspiring to manifest the attributes of such
inspirational examples often becomes an important part of the journey through life for
spiritually inclined people.
The spiritual journey involves first healing and affirming the ego so that positive
states are experienced; with secure self-esteem, belief in self-worth and a capacity
for love and generosity, a person becomes less constrained by ego defences. An
opening of the heart is an essential aspect of true spirituality. In this regard one may
question the spiritual nature of masochistic religious practices such as selfflagellation, which is based on a belief in the wickedness inherent in the body rather
than on any real connection with, and therefore compassion for, the body. This
illustrates the fact that religion does not always serve the progress of spiritual
development but may get side-tracked into practices that create pride, feelings of
superiority etc. or else lead to a person becoming bogged down in unworthiness,
guilt and shame - all of which emotions are commonly suffered by psychiatric
patients. In short, religion will be taken up by a person in a way that inevitably
reflects their own level of development and maturity.
The development of spirituality is generally recognised as requiring some sort of
practice or discipline in order to make ‘progress'. This can involve the aspirant in
paradoxes such as non-striving, the gateless gate, or coming home to oneself.
Contemplative practices such as prayer and meditation are the common
denominator of many religions and the foundation of spirituality. Without them,
personal growth is much slower and haphazard. A teacher or mentor is usually
recommended.
Spiritual development often involves spontaneous happenings that cannot be
accounted for scientifically and that may be attributed to an external force, for
example: grace, or angelic or divine interventions. The conversion of Saul of Tarsus
on the road to Damascus is one such dramatic example. Development may not
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necessarily be an instantaneous event but can happen more gradually as when
going through an experience of severe illness, or a terminal diagnosis, when the
fragility of life is revealed and a person re-evaluates the meaning of their life.
Whether there is any objective reality to the beliefs of spiritually inclined people is an
area of debate and controversy, often taking place in the arena of philosophy as a
discipline independent of the beliefs that supposedly taint the intellectual capacities
of those who are spiritually inclined. As a sociologist friend said when he was
studying the devotees of Prem Rawat, who founded the Divine Light Mission in the
early 1970s: ‘If you are inside the group you don’t have the objectivity to study the
phenomena, but if you are outside the group you don’t really know what it is you are
studying.’ So research often stays in the safe arena of behaviour, which is superficial
and can be uninformative or misleading. A documentary film was made for television
about the Rajneesh commune in 1984, showing people in Dynamic Meditation
jumping up and down in noisy catharsis, with their eyes shut, some with eye-masks
on. The presenter of the film failed to convey anything about the purpose of this
active form of meditation and did not enquire at all about anyone’s internal
experience, remaining content to sensationalise an appearance of weirdoes doing
something outlandish that looked ridiculous without appropriate explanation.
Religion formalises certain aspects of spiritual awareness into a coherent belief
system that can be taken on trust, even if the person has no direct experience of the
Divine: for instance, a person might believe that Jesus is the son of God because
that is what the Bible teaches whereas another person may have had a vision of
Jesus in person telling him/her that he is the son of God. Direct experience of truth
as opposed to intellectual knowledge is considered key in mystical experience.
The belief systems of religion extend beyond the individual’s experience to his/her
role in society and morality-based rules are formulated to govern relationships and
activities. Usually religion is manifest as a collective through church, mosque,
synagogue or temple, and is involved with community as much as with individuals.
This provides a real framework through which the ‘greater than me’ can start to be
experienced.
The debate about the status of spiritual beliefs such as the existence of God, the
meaning of life, the absolute existence of moral laws, and many more such, typically
appears to reach an impasse between mature spiritual seekers and the sceptics. To
the spiritual person the sceptic appears like a blind man trying to say something
about sight when it is absent in himself, and the spiritual person appears to the
sceptic as a vulnerable person motivated by emotional needs to find some delusional
area of comfort or support. For a believer there is no need to prove in any rational
way that God exists as his existence is self-evident in his creation. For others, while
the evident order within the universe at macro- and micro -levels is sufficient to
demonstrate that there is an intelligence at work much greater than the human mind,
this does not justify naming it as God. Since neither side can understand the other,
the debate will no doubt continue indefinitely.
