01/28/2026
That voice telling you you're doing everything wrong? Mine has a name: Monica.
She's loud. She's mean. And she's actually trying to protect you.
If you never take chances, you can't fail. If you never put yourself out there, you can't get hurt. Monica thinks she's helping.
But here's what I'm learning: you can work WITH her instead of against her.
Try this → Pull back and listen to what she's really saying. What's she actually afraid of? Failure? Rejection? Something that happened before?
Then reassure her: "I've got this. You're loved, but I can protect myself now."
It sounds woo-woo. I get it. But this practice changed everything for me.
Full episode on working with your inner critic, giving yourself permission to be exactly where you are, and why compare-and-despair is killing your progress → link in bio
https://meganpfiffnernutrition.com/mental-emotional-health/you-are-not-robin-berzin-and-thats-the-point/