01/28/2026
I posted a video of me crying after a BJJ tournament, my wife and kids where there, and I got bombarded with HATE 😲
Absolute nonsense, right?
Ya know, If I actually listened to stuff like this…
I’d probably be depressed.
Anyway, this is not about hate I get, (which is very rarely)
It’s about..
Doing the thing that scares the sh*t out of ya.
So scary, it might even make you cry (Like I did).
I entered a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu competition.
I was completely out of my comfort zone.
Felt like I had no business doing it.
As MEN
(if you're a fella, that is)
Being afraid is NORMAL.
I want you to know this,
and maybe this will help you tackle something you’re afraid of.
Maybe you’re scared of sparring, fighting, going to a boxing gym for the 1st time or even confronting someone that your anxious about (a work college, family member etc)
These are all scary things...
and if someone says they not, well they either full of sh*t or just daft haha
But i want you to know
Success lives on the other side of fear!
Other than the hate comments
I had a lot of saying things like..
"As the video goes on, it really inspires me."
“Total respect for stepping out of your comfort zone”
Wanna see me cry? Haha
And hopefully get inspired?
Ive linked the video in the commens below
(it's pretty long)
Give it a watch and leave me any questions or comments in the section below the video:
Tony “The Crying Baby 👶🏼” Jeffries