02/10/2026
Valentine’s Day is coming, and for a lot of people, that brings up feelings. Pressure if you’re in a relationship. Loneliness if you’re not. Comparison to what everyone else seems to have.
But what matters more than one holiday are patterns of connection over time. One dinner doesn’t measure the quality of your relationship. One celebration doesn’t measure the strength of your friendships.
Different relationships support you in different ways. None of them are less important. Connection calms your nervous system. It lowers cortisol. It helps you regulate emotions. It’s not optional - it’s biology.
So, if you’re feeling lonely this week, even surrounded by people, you’re not broken. You’re human.
What type of connection do you need most right now?