04/28/2026
She asked me what I was going to give up.
I had no idea what she was talking about.
What I didn’t see yet: I had been holding on so tightly to controlling everything — the plans, the experience, the way things were supposed to go — that it had broken my body.
Literally.
In midlife, control doesn’t feel like control. It feels like responsibility. It feels like who you are.
What are you holding on to that you’re ready to let go of? Tell me in the comments.
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