11/20/2025
‼️YOUR SELF-TALK BECOMES THE WAY THE WORLD TREATS YOU‼️
The relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every relationship in your life.
The way you speak to yourself becomes the language of love, respect, and boundaries that others will mirror back to you.
If you’re critical of yourself, you’ll feel at home with people who criticize you.
If you neglect your own needs, you’ll attract partners who neglect them too.
If you don’t believe you’re worthy of love, you’ll find people who confirm that belief.
We teach others how to treat us by how we treat ourselves.
When you don’t protect your time, people waste it.
When you dismiss your emotions, people ignore them.
When you undervalue yourself, people underpay you, underlove you, and undersee you.
Your self-relationship is everyone else’s instruction manual.
And for many of us, that manual was written in childhood.
If your parents were critical, emotionally unavailable, or neglectful, that became your inner voice — the one you now mistake for truth.
It’s not truth, it’s a pattern.
And patterns can be rewritten.
You can become the parent, the friend, the partner you always needed — starting with how you speak to yourself.
Because healing begins when you change the voice in your head to one that loves, nurtures, and respects you.
The way you talk to yourself today will become the way the world talks to you tomorrow.
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