01/22/2026
We often mistake “hardness” for strength. We build walls, stiffen our resolve, and treat our sensitivity as a liability in a world that demands we always be “on.” But what if your greatest power actually lies in your ability to remain soft?
Embracing your softness isn’t about being weak; it’s about emotional flexibility. As a psychiatrist, I see how “hardening” yourself against stress actually makes you more brittle and prone to burnout. When you allow yourself to lean into softness, to practice self-compassion and listen to your intuition, you stop breaking under the weight of expectations. You reclaim your peace, deepen your capacity for joy, and create the necessary space for true, holistic healing to take place.
By integrating the structure of science with the “softness” of the spirit, you gain a resilience that doesn’t require a shield.
Where can you invite a little more softness into your life today? Is it through a gentler internal dialogue or a moment of quiet reflection? Share one way you’re practicing self-softness in the comments below. 👇