10/17/2024
It's now TWELVE years. There has not been enough change despite the hard work of many advocates. Our work and our commitment remain steadfast. We appreciate all the support we've gotten from friends over the years. We WILL prevail.
Twelve years ago, October 16th was sunny and bright in New York City. I drove my son, William, to a downtown hospital. He had his bag packed, including two books to read. Frustrated and tiring from his struggle with addiction, he wanted to be admitted to the hospital’s inpatient detox unit. He had both he**in and benzodiazepines in his system, a fact he willingly shared with intake staff. It took a very short time (under an hour) for his insurers, Emblem Health, and their subsidiary, Value Options, to deny him the treatment he sought saying it was “not medically necessary.” He knew what he needed. Despondent upon bring refused treatment, he left the hospital, came back uptown and overdosed in a Starbuck’s bathroom. He was taken to an ER, “treated”, then released the same day. He returned home early that evening, bag and books in hand. We never knew a thing about the details of his day until we reviewed medical records after his death. Four days later he overdosed again – this time it would eventually prove fatal, but not before six weeks of hospitalization. Some days get gloomy, no matter how bright the sky. Time has not helped heal this wound. So begins what I call “The Season of Gloom”: the dates marking his treatment denial, his overdose, his birthday, and his death in our arms on December 2nd.