06/02/2022
Today is World Eating Disorders Action Day. This year's theme is "supporting the supporters" so I thought this post would be helpful as so many blame themselves when their children or loved ones develop an eating disorder.
Although the comments on the left can definitely have an overall effect on a child developing an eating disorder (especially if multiple are regularly said) the ones on the right are examples of things that can be very damaging. They can affect a persons self esteem and self worth, as well as play a role in how they conceptualize food and their weight.
One comment does not cause an eating disorder; but over time if a child is repeatedly spoken to this way along with witnessing certain unhealthy behaviors it can trigger something more serious to develop. Those unhealthy behaviors could be at home, on social media, with friends at school, or very often team orientated sports and activities.
If you struggle with thinking you should say these sorts of things to your kids or have had this said to you as a child please reach out to a professional with eating disorder experience for help.