Meredith Shirey, Marriage & Family Therapy, PLLC

Meredith Shirey, Marriage & Family Therapy, PLLC We are a Psychotherapy Private Practice comprised of psychotherapists who specialize in treating relationally-based issues.

As marriage and family therapists, our team is dedicated to serving the needs of individuals, couples, and families in NYC. Our team of highly-trained psychotherapists are available for guidance through whatever issues have led you to seek psychotherapy. Meredith Shirey Marriage & Family Therapy, PLLC is a private psychotherapy practice located in downtown Manhattan. The practice specializes in tr

eating issues from the context of couples therapy. Our clinicians treat couples who are married, dating, cohabitating, and those interested in premarital counseling. Some clinicians have specialized training in treating unique populations such as LGBT+ and military couples. Family therapy is offered by our clinicians who are specially licensed to practice marriage and family therapy. We not only treat traditional families, but also blended, LGBT, and military families. The practice specializes in relational therapy, but our work extends far beyond the setting of couples and families. Clinicians also treat individuals having difficulties in interpersonal relationships. These difficulties include dating, friendships, familial relationships, and working relationships. In addition to relationally-based issues, clinicians also treat mental health concerns using a variety of evidence-based practices tailored to the specific needs of the individual. Our clinicians are highly skilled in treating an array of issues including (but not limited to) anxiety, depression, traumatic events and PTSD, substance abuse and other addictive behaviors, bereavement and loss, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Conduct and Oppositional Disorder, and other childhood-related disorders. See below for more information about each of our psychotherapists:

Meredith Shirey, MS, LMFT
Practice Director, Couples and Family Specialist
Areas of Speciality: Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy, Attachment-based and Insight-oriented Individual Psychotherapy, Clinical Supervision
Meredith is recognized as an expert on couple and relationship issues. "My approach to treating clients is to convey warmth and acceptance, while also being direct. I believe in balancing insight and behavioral change- meaning that I find the best outcomes in therapy come from a combination of helping clients learn about the origins of their issues, while also giving them tools to enact change in their present lives." Jamey Baumbusch, MS, LMFT
Assistant Practice Director
Areas of Speciality: Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy
Jamey works with individuals and families, and specializes in couples therapy as a Level 3 trained Gottman Method Therapist. Jamey combines the use of evidence-based models, such as CBT or family-based interventions for adolescents, with a focus on enacting and strengthening solutions. He is skilled at helping clients evaluate what is sustaining their problems and what are the pathways to healing and solution attainment. He has experience working with premarital couples, blended and second-marriage families, and q***r couples. Lauren Ares, MA, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Areas of Specialty: Relationally-focused Individual Therapy, Autism Spectrum Disorders, Couple and Family Therapy
Lauren likes to focus on the strenghts of the individual, couple or family to bring out the tools that are already present. Lauren uses a blend of structural and strategic theraputic approches as well as attachment theory. She creates a collaborative environment to help clients see the pattern and how they can address it most effectively. She has experience with premarital, married, blended and divorced couples. Lauren also has experience working with Austism Spectrum Disorders in the family context and how a parent/couple can manage the associated obstacles.​

Haley Selarnick, MS, MFT
Marriage and Family Therapist
Areas of Speciality: Pre-marital Counseling, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Trauma-Informed and Medical Psychotherapy
Haley has worked with diverse populations through various modalities of treatment includes The Gottman Method for married and pre-marital couples and blended families. Haley has also worked with women at a transitional housing facility and school-aged children. Her work with individuals includes addressing trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, grief, low-self esteem, and chronic illness. She is also a certified Prepare and Enrich Relationship Check Up Clinician, which is for couples interested in exploring engagement, marriage, or co-habitation. Rebecca Brown
Marriage and Family Therapy Intern, Intake Coordinator
Rebecca is a graduate student studying Marriage and Family Therapy for clinical training specifically in the practice of couple and family psychotherapy. Rebecca works from a systemic lens of therapy, based on the belief that individuals cannot be fully understood in isolation and so, must be viewed as part of their family and other groups of which they hold membership. Rebecca utilizes the strengths and tools individuals bring to therapy to help elicit a natural and lasting positive change. Her approach to therapy is to create a collaborative, warm and non-judgmental space in which clients can feel comfortable being vulnerable.

Our upcoming Divorce Support Group being facilitated by Emily Shapiro is now beginning on October 27th! Register using t...
09/20/2021

Our upcoming Divorce Support Group being facilitated by Emily Shapiro is now beginning on October 27th! Register using the following link today! https://bit.ly/38831YH

I am excited to announce that my practice’s Emily Shapiro will be facilitating two new therapy groups starting next mont...
08/24/2021

I am excited to announce that my practice’s Emily Shapiro will be facilitating two new therapy groups starting next month: Improv Therapy Group for Couples & Divorce Support Group. See the images for more info! To register, use the following links.
Improv Group: https://bit.ly/3j9ODW6 Divorce Group: https://bit.ly/38831YH

We are excited to announce two new upcoming therapy groups being facilitated by our own Emily Shapiro: Improv Therapy Gr...
08/24/2021

We are excited to announce two new upcoming therapy groups being facilitated by our own Emily Shapiro: Improv Therapy Group for Couples and Divorce Support Group. Please see the images for more info. To register, please use the following links.
Improv Group: https://bit.ly/3j9ODW6
Divorce Group: https://bit.ly/38831YH

03/28/2021

On this last episode before a brief hiatus we did something different on the ...we took a look back at our first 13 episodes with a “behind the scenes” conversation about what this process has been like. So who better yo join .juste and I than our show’s producer my very dear friend .rich!

This might now be my favorite episode...what a fun conversation about how much we have grown through the process of making a podcast. What an incredible journey and we’re only just getting started! I’m so grateful to Rich, Isaiah, and all of our guests for being a part of this journey

03/12/2021

What is “infidelity” in today’s relationships? How do we define it, and what if our partner disagrees? On this week’s episode of the we explore all sides of one of the most difficult challenges a couple can face: an affair. wherever you get

“Survivor” vs. “Victim.” When you’ve experienced   the label matters. Have you listened to  ‘s latest episode of  ? Chec...
02/24/2021

“Survivor” vs. “Victim.” When you’ve experienced the label matters.

Have you listened to ‘s latest episode of ? Check out the incredible conversation with .editheger...where we are reminded that we have the agency to choose our own labels to describe ourselves, we don’t have to blindly accept the ones other people give to us if they do not fit who are (or want to be). Part of embodying is deciding to love who we choose to be.

02/18/2021

Most of us received *less than helpful* s*x education that in no way prepared us for what healthy s*x and relationships look like. On this week’s episode of we’re talking to an incredible *xpert who just happens to be my and dear friend, Melissa Pennica ! Link in bio for this episode and many more of the
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02/11/2021

Question: How would you feel if your partner wanted a prenuptial agreement? 🤔🤔 In this week’s episode of we explore all things .juste .rich

02/04/2021

Is there a way to make kale s*xy?! 🤔🤔 We asked to find out! Check out Episode 7 of now!
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01/28/2021

Talking about finances on the first date might not be your idea of a good time, but it might lead to happily ever after. Can we overcome the stigma of having uncomfortable conversations sooner rather than later, before it's too late? Love Me or Leave Me Podcast - Episode 6 is available now. Listen and like, share and subscribe, wherever you get your podcasts!

01/21/2021

Episode 5 available now! No matter what stage of life you're in, or phase of the relationship you find yourself, at one point or another, you might consider making a more serious and formal commitment. In this two-part episode titled “Before You Say I Do,” we grapple with some of the more nuanced conversations you might want to have with your potential partner...like s*x, finances, and family.
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01/20/2021

My favorite line from the poem by Amanda Gorman today: “We lift our gazes not to what stands between us but what stands before us.” She is amazing.

http://bit.ly/LMLMpod☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️I am beyond excited to announce that the Love Me or Leave Me Podcast is officially li...
01/14/2021

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I am beyond excited to announce that the Love Me or Leave Me Podcast is officially live! This labor of love began way back in October 2020 inspired by conversations between Isaiah Vallejo-Juste and I. Although we have very different careers we share one fundamental goal: helping everyday people navigate the uncertainties of their relationships and lives. These challenges have only been exacerbated by the hardships of a global pandemic and quarantine. We thought, what better time to share what we know with everyone who might be in need of a little empathy, clarity, and advice. Listen and Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts, or follow the link above to listen online!

01/12/2021

If ever there was a silver lining to the pandemic it’s that it has afforded us a rare opportunity to reevaluate our relationships. In many ways it has minimized our distractions. It forces us to acknowledge on a deeper level the interpersonal connections we have with the people under our roofs. As we’ll be discussing on our debut podcast Love Me or Leave Me, some people will make it  and some people won’t. It all depends on how you use this time. My co-host Isaiah Vallejo-Juste and I  have some thoughts about this as a licensed psychotherapist and a divorce attorney. Here’s another early preview.

01/11/2021

They say hindsight is 2020, and if the year 2020 has taught us anything it has been to take stock of what is important in our lives right now. On Thursday, January 14, myself and Isaiah Vallejo-Juste are launching a brand new podcast called Love Me or Leave Me. As a licensed psychotherapist and a divorce attorney we explore the gaps in human relationships, the personal choices people make for themselves and their families, and the impact our actions have on the rest of our lives. “Episode 1: What Now? Life After 2020” is all about how we are collectively coping with quarantine, communication challenges, some possible solutions, and how to simply remember how to be human. Here’s an early preview.

11/05/2020

We are still looking for a talented psychotherapist to join our team! Apply today!

Loved this quote from  on   ‘s podcast! “Boundary setting” has become a topic of conversation with almost everyone, espe...
10/30/2020

Loved this quote from on ‘s podcast!

“Boundary setting” has become a topic of conversation with almost everyone, especially amidst the pandemic and quarantine. So what happens when we communicate our boundaries but they are respected/followed by the person or people with whom the boundary was set? If we do not address the continued boundary volatility , we are sending the message that our need wasn’t all that important, more of a guideline or want than a need. If we do not treat our boundaries as rules, with consequences when broken, we are abandoning ourselves.

What boundaries are you setting, and what do you do when they are not respected?

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Tuesday 8am - 8pm
Wednesday 8am - 8pm
Thursday 8am - 8pm
Friday 8am - 8pm
Saturday 10am - 6pm
Sunday 10am - 6pm

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+16469513692

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