Jay R. Feld, Marriage & Family Therapist

07/25/2025

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/24/well/family/couples-counselors-advice.html?unlocked_article_code=1.ZE8.iujX.kfHpEsNMeM29&smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare

Eight therapists share lessons they find themselves repeating again and again.

04/05/2025

Brene Brown, "Expose a Narcissist with Just One Question"

:Have you ever wondered why he’s not reaching out, even when you know he wants to?...

03/25/2025

Why Do People Enjoying Doing Difficult Things?

https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2025/03/effort-paradox-hard-work/682156/?

People enjoy difficult things. This is puzzling to psychology.

09/02/2022

04/02/2022

https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/04/01/grief-is-not-mental-disorder/?carta-url=https%3A%2F%2Fs2.washingtonpost.com%2Fcar-ln-tr%2F3679d83%2F6248715879d9d21aa115dde8%2F5c9ab5c4ade4e268797d40b7%2F57%2F70%2F6248715879d9d21aa115dde8

The American Psychiatric Association’s categorization of “prolonged” grief as a disorder pathologizes a normal, necessary process.

08/31/2020

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/08/28/health/virtual-therapy-psychiatry-coronavirus.html?referringSource=articleShare

Experts have long predicted that psychotherapy was poised to go virtual. The pandemic may prove them right.

08/27/2020

https://us1.campaign-archive.com/?e=__test_email__&u=6c1ffbc3f599e57d4bb3eb979&id=6d3c64ba1c

...is one of many books I haven’t read since mid-March, when we first started to quarantine (although Lord knows, I’ve had the time). But I’ve been thinking about the topic of war and peace a lot. Specifically, I’ve been thinking about polarization – political, social, and relational. Work...

08/23/2020

https://psiloveyou.xyz/7-green-flags-your-date-is-a-great-person-34f1e05b43ac

Signs to watch out for that you’re dating someone solid.

05/05/2020

A tremendous bargain, $3.99 on Kindle, until May 10th, Sue Johnson's groundbreaking book Hold Me Tight, explaining the basics of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy.

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

04/22/2020

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/21/well/family/coronavirus-teenagers-uncomfortable-emotions.html?referringSource=articleShare

Psychological health includes being able to bear unpleasant feelings.

03/03/2020

Very sweet 3:46 video. Speaks for itself.

Nadine, depressed and alone, has been living her life in the dark. A gift from a friendly neighbor gives Nadine something to live for. With a new life, Nadine has…