Talking Works

Talking Works Talking Works is a group of professional and caring therapists and counselors. We can help you become We can help you achieve a mentally healthy lifestyle.

Lana Gaiton Psychological Services presents a group of professional, qualified and caring therapists. We provide counseling and psychotherapy to adults, children and families and strongly believe in the benefits of group psychotherapy and run several groups. We present a secure, safe, and comforting environment and are committed to protecting your confidentiality.

10/17/2025

Your anxiety means well, itโ€™s just terrible at feeding you peace. Learn to take the spoon back. ๐Ÿง˜โ€โ™€๏ธ
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Small adjustments can make a big difference for ADHD brains.If youโ€™re struggling to manage ADHD on your own, therapy can...
10/16/2025

Small adjustments can make a big difference for ADHD brains.

If youโ€™re struggling to manage ADHD on your own, therapy can help you build tools that actually work for your brain.
Our therapists specialize in ADHD, anxiety, and executive-function challenges โ€” and weโ€™re here when youโ€™re ready to start.

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As the days get shorter and cooler, itโ€™s normal to feel a dip in energy or mood. Here are a few quick ways to boost your...
10/15/2025

As the days get shorter and cooler, itโ€™s normal to feel a dip in energy or mood. Here are a few quick ways to boost your emotional well-being this fall:

๐Ÿ Morning sunlight: Even 10 minutes can help reset your circadian rhythm
๐Ÿ Cozy movement: A brisk walk or yoga session outside
๐Ÿ Gratitude journaling: Capture one small thing youโ€™re thankful for each day

Your mental health deserves attention, no matter the season. Our therapists are ready to listen and guide.
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10/11/2025

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10/08/2025

A continuation of yesterdayโ€™s Psych 101 topic, The Bystander Effect, the Kitty Genovese case sparked it all.


10/08/2025

๐“๐ก๐ž ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ ๐„๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐œ๐ญ. Itโ€™s a psychological phenomenon where people are less likely to intervene when others are present. The responsibility to act gets diffused โ€” the silent thought becomes, โ€œSomeone else will step in.โ€

Psychologists John Darley and Bibb Latanรฉ (1968) first demonstrated this after studying group behavior following the Kitty Genovese case in New York. (More on that in next post!) They found that when people thought others could help, their personal sense of duty dropped dramatically.

๐“ฆ๐“ฑ๐“ช๐“ฝโ€™๐“ผ ๐“ป๐“ฎ๐“ช๐“ต๐“ต๐”‚ ๐“ฑ๐“ช๐“น๐“น๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ฒ๐“ท๐“ฐ:

Your brain does a quick social calculation:
โ€œ๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ, ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜บ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ตโ€™๐˜ด ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ.โ€
Itโ€™s not apathy; itโ€™s hesitation born from social pressure and uncertainty.

How to counter it:
1๏ธโƒฃ Acknowledge the freeze. Notice that silence itself is a cue somethingโ€™s off.
2๏ธโƒฃ Personalize responsibility. Remind yourself: โ€œIf I donโ€™t speak, who will?โ€
3๏ธโƒฃ Start small. Even a gentle โ€œHey, thatโ€™s not coolโ€ breaks the paralysis for others to follow.
4๏ธโƒฃ Act fast. The longer you wait, the harder it gets โ€” quick action interrupts group inaction.

The bystander effect doesnโ€™t just happen in emergencies. It happens in classrooms, offices, friend groups, online spaces โ€” anywhere someone could speak up, but doesnโ€™t.

Awareness is the first disruption. Silence might feel safe, but itโ€™s often the loudest response in the room.


Get in touch today, weโ€™ll get you set up ๐Ÿ“ฒ347-391-4250
10/06/2025

Get in touch today, weโ€™ll get you set up ๐Ÿ“ฒ347-391-4250


Some people can predict the weather, some people can hit a high note, and some people forget the simple thing theyโ€™ve go...
09/29/2025

Some people can predict the weather, some people can hit a high note, and some people forget the simple thing theyโ€™ve gotten up three separate times to get and still donโ€™t have. ADHD is a collection of superpowers that are, sometimes, super hard to understand. A knowledgeable therapist can help explain how ADHD manifests and how to set yourself up with routines and techniques for management. ๐Ÿ“ฒ 347-391-4250


If you see this, itโ€™s a sign. Make the step and schedule your first session. ๐Ÿ“ฒ 347-391-3250                             ...
09/26/2025

If you see this, itโ€™s a sign. Make the step and schedule your first session. ๐Ÿ“ฒ 347-391-3250


Sometimes what looks like laziness or defiance is actually a battle with mental health. Youโ€™re not aloneโ€”and you donโ€™t h...
09/24/2025

Sometimes what looks like laziness or defiance is actually a battle with mental health. Youโ€™re not aloneโ€”and you donโ€™t have to fight it in silence. ๐Ÿ’›

๐Ÿ‘‰ Share this with someone who might need the reminder today, and donโ€™t be afraid to reach out for support.

๐Ÿ’ก ๐™ƒ๐™š๐™ก๐™ฅ๐™›๐™ช๐™ก ๐™๐™ž๐™ฅ๐™จ ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐˜พ๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ ๐˜ฟ๐™š๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™š๐™จ๐™จ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ

โ€ข Break things into tiny steps. Instead of โ€œdo the laundry,โ€ make it โ€œfold one shirt.โ€ Small wins matter.
โ€ข Build a routine anchor. Even one consistent habit (like making tea in the morning or a short walk outside) can create stability.
โ€ข Reach out to one person. You donโ€™t need a long conversationโ€”just a quick text like โ€œhey, thinking of youโ€ can break the isolation.
โ€ข Move your body gently. Light stretching, a slow walk, or even just opening a window for fresh air can shift your mood.
โ€ข Practice radical kindness toward yourself. If all you did today was survive, that is enough.

โš ๏ธ Important: If youโ€™re experiencing severe thoughts of harming yourself, please contact a licensed professional right away or call/text 988 (the Su***de & Crisis Lifeline in the U.S.). You deserve help and support.


Thatโ€™s basically anxiety in a nutshell. Therapy teaches you that you donโ€™t have to close all the tabs at once โ€” just sta...
09/22/2025

Thatโ€™s basically anxiety in a nutshell. Therapy teaches you that you donโ€™t have to close all the tabs at once โ€” just start with one.โ˜๏ธ
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