07/15/2025
YES! Child led means we encourage and respect, while remaining clinicians and teaching. 🗣️⚓️🌞
I recently saw a post where a therapist stated she was “viscously attacked” by a student and went on to question if child-lead therapy is to blame.
It broke my heart because it highlights how so many people don’t truly understand what child lead therapy truly means- and also, what it DOESN’T mean.
Now. Aggression can be a serious problem. I’ve worked with many children that were extremely aggressive and it was super freaking hard- for everyone (including the child). Looking back, there are many things I could have changed (oh hindsight is so helpful, right?!) - and I think a huge thing would have been involving the child’s interests more, being less “demanding” than I was, and also putting more time into recognizing early signs of dysregulation. Doing those things wouldn’t have ended the aggression completely- but they could have reduced it quite a bit. I also think if I could have looked at the situation as “a dysregulated child in need of support” vs “being viscously attacked” (because I’m pretty sure there’s no viciousness actually intended) would have been a huge game changer for relationship building and empathy. But yes, autonomy is important for EVERYONE and nobody should be injured.
And with that said- child lead does not mean “free for all.” Nobody is saying to let kids injure other people or that there are no consequences for their actions. And I think more people need to understand this.
I’d love to do more posts to help people better understand this, so let me know in the comments, what questions do you have? ⤵️