09/05/2025
This week’s parsha, Ki Teitze, reminds us that Torah families were never one-size-fits-all. It talks about households with more than two spouses, showing that our tradition has always recognized that relationships can be complex, layered, and outside a narrow mold.
But Ki Teitze doesn’t stop there. It’s also packed with mitzvot about caring for the vulnerable: returning lost objects, sending away a mother bird before taking her eggs, paying workers on time, protecting strangers, and ensuring dignity for those who might otherwise be overlooked.
Our “pockets” can hold many things – kinds of love, belonging, and chosen family. And our communities, like Torah, are strongest when they make space for difference and make sure the most vulnerable are cared for.
Together, these teachings remind us that holiness doesn’t come from fitting into one model. It comes from building a world where relationships are honored and people are treated with dignity.