01/12/2026
If you’ve ever been told you’re lazy when you’re actually exhausted, stuck, or overwhelmed—this is for you.
For autistic or AuDHD adults, executive functioning isn’t about trying harder. It’s about whether your brain can access skills in that moment. This isn’t a motivation problem. It’s executive access variability.
I developed the Autistic Executive Function Access Matrix™ (AEFAM) and accompanying quiz to explain where executive access breaks down, without blaming autistic or AuDHD individuals for it.
If this resonates, I created a short quiz that helps you identify your executive access pattern and what actually helps. The strategies provided in the AEFAM model were only available after an evaluation with me before now.
The Substack link to the AEFAM model and quiz is in the about section.
Tip it’s free to subscribe and both are free for first time subscribers if you take the quiz at the bottom of the AEFAM article and not separately!