04/20/2026
"Selfishness is when you feel, 'I must have it at any cost.' Analyze your motives. 'What am I gaining out of that?' By being selfish, you aren't going to happy at all. Any time you are unhappy, if you look for the cause, you will see that you were selfish in your approach or in your thinking. That's why a selfish person can never, never, never be happy.
Even wanting to be peaceful at all times is selfish. But that kind of selfishness isn't wrong. If you find the peace in you, people all around you will be benefitted by your peaceful nature. Even if you don't consciously do anything for them or say anything to them, you'll be setting an example, and they'll learn from your example. So that's a sort of selfless selflessness.
- Sri Swami Satchidananda, from the book, Golden Moments