02/24/2026
Did you learn that joy comes with rules? Earn it first. Don’t want too much. Don’t enjoy it too freely.
Therapy helps unpack where those rules came from...and whether they’re still serving you.
Enjoyment is regulating. Small moments of pleasure help the nervous system learn that safety and satisfaction can exist in the present. You don’t have to justify delight. You don’t have to minimize it. Letting something be sweet without consequence is a form of care.