
05/07/2024
As a happiness coach, I talk with a lot of people who want to be happy, but they arent, and they think it is because of someone or something that needs to change.
It isn’t, tho - it’s because they’ve located themselves in a place of fear rather than love.
That’s always the problem.
When I look back at my own life I can see where my choice to side with fear made me see scarcity everywhere, stay in relationships, jobs and places I should have moved on from, kept me from letting go, and talked me out of taking the leaps that could lead me to the next awesome thing.
Fear made me believe I’d regret making a change, and convinced me that things wouldn’t work out because I couldn’t see how they could.
Fear allowed me to ignore and suppress what I knew in my heart was right. It caused me to see myself as a victim, and someone else as responsible for my happiness.
Fear talked me into abandoning myself, and to abdicate ownership for my choices and my experience.
A turning point for me came when I experienced the gift of the breakup of a long-term relationship.
I was in SOOOO much fear.
But when I finally got my spiritual balls together and looked at the situation honestly with my Guide, I
was able to see and take responsibility for the creative power of my own thoughts and how they resulted in my experience.
I was free to make the decision to no longer allow fear be the boss of me.
I packed my sh*t up and moved outta the Victim ‘Hood.
I began to consciously choose love, to see possibilities, and experience wonderful outcomes.
Life became full of crazy blessings, unforeseen opportunities, and endless synchronicities.
I could see Spirit’s handprints all over the elegant solutions and Divinely-timed answers that constantly showed up.
What I thought was heartbreak was actually the sound of my heart cracking open, making space for an unimaginable in-pouring of loving light that was meant to flow into and through me, out into the world and across the Universe – connecting me with everyone and everything that is for my highest good.
It has been nothing short of miraculous.
If you’re stuck, or something is calling you to step into it; if you’re staying in a situation that isn’t serving you, or you’re not living your purpose or embracing your passion – if you’re not happy and you’re blaming anyone or anything for it – you’re aligning yourself with fear and blocking the love that wants to take you where you really want to go.
Choose love. ❤️