12/22/2021
Social Eating
It’s the time of year when people who are dealing with weight challenges have a difficult time navigating through all of the social eating gatherings. Getting through the next ten days will be challenging but doable. How?
Here are some helpful tips:
1} When attending a family gathering or social gathering prepare ahead. Don’t arrive super hungry. This will cause you to binge eat. Prepare your mind before attending of what you will allow yourself to eat and limit the sugary foods and alcohol. This is called “mindful eating” as opposed to “mindless eating”. Remember, you are the one in control of what you put in your mouth. If you let other people control what you eat you are giving them power over you. Ask yourself, “do I trust this person to make decisions for me, or do I trust myself?”
2} Drink plenty of water before and during the social gathering. Sip on hot tea. If you are going out to dinner, remember that we always tend to eat more. After all, we are paying for the meal so we want to get our money’s worth, right? Okay, so it’s better to get a to go box at the beginning of the meal. This informs you and other people that you are going to stop eating when you are full. Be aware of high fat high calorie appetizers. Sip on unsweetened tea or coffee. You are still social eating but without the calories.
3} This time of year special attention is given to desserts. Plan ahead. If you are doing the Optavia program, make yourself the brownie, cinnamon swirl cheesecake or Too Good Yogurt mixed with the strawberry or vanilla shake mix. If you must indulge choose ONE dessert item and eat half of a serving.
4} If you are already struggling with your weight be diligent about your portion size. Stay on track with your regular eating and exercise.
5} Remember, if you plan to overeat or binge eat at a social gathering, then you will. It’s best to tell yourself that overeating is just not going to happen no matter what. The habits that you have established in the past will always come to the fore and try to sabotage you. Step back and ask yourself, “is this a habit that I want to keep OR do I want to change this habit” Maybe it has served you well in the past. Usually, it’s an emotion that we want to bury by covering it over with food. “If you’re really not hungry no amount of food will satisfy that hunger”- Michelle May, mindful eating specialist.
6} Be present in your mind a body. You can do this and when you succeed you will have confidence in yourself that will take you to the next level of health.
Dr. Carol Reese is an ND, LMT, Wholistic Health Practitioner, Life Coach, Health Coach, Weight loss Coach and Brain Health coach. Let us know how we can help you. Quantum Alternative Health Inc. 770-755-6525.