01/24/2023
This can feel so foreign, especially when we have been conditioned to think we need a reason to say "no" when something is asked of us. From declining plans to drawing boundaries in our relationships, we don't need to justify our reasons for the decisions we make that are in our best interest. Whether it's to preserve our energy, we have other plans, it goes against our beliefs, it doesn't feel right, or we just don't want to! Whatever your "reason" is, it's good enough. When we justify (or over-justify), we are attempting to manage the other person's perception of us and their emotional reaction, neither of which are our responsibility.