01/04/2026
No One Wants to Be a Role Model
The title of this piece, “No One Wants to Be a Role Model,” resonates with a profound truth. The pressure to embody societal standards of appropriateness and respectability can be overwhelming. This is especially true for public figures like Pastor Jamal Bryant and First Lady Bryant, who navigate their roles with a unique understanding of their influence on others.When Pastor Bryant accepted his calling to ministry, he took an oath to share, teach, and live according to biblical principles. The Bible outlines standards, values, and morals that guide those who choose to follow Christ. For instance, Proverbs 31:10 asks, “Who can find a virtuous woman?” This verse highlights the importance of virtue and integrity in our lives. Additionally, Hebrews 13:4 reminds us that “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure.” This emphasizes the sanctity of marriage and the importance of keeping private matters sacred.However, when public figures display their lives and relationships, it can lead to unintended consequences. Public displays can tempt others and provoke lustful thoughts, as seen in Matthew 5:28, where Jesus teaches that even looking at someone with lust is a form of adultery. When we see a man of the cloth, dressed impeccably, with his wife by his side, it can evoke mixed feelings. While she may appear stunning and elegant, the way she presents herself can leave room for interpretation and desire.The Bible teaches us that we are “in the world but not of it” (John 17:14-16). This concept encourages us to be different and to uphold our values in a world that often blurs the lines between right and wrong. As 1 Peter 2:9 states, we are “a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession.” This calls us to live in a way that reflects our faith and sets us apart from worldly standards.As Christians, it is crucial to seek guidance from God and cultivate a personal relationship with Him. Prove
