20/12/2025
Teach your kids that we can’t judge people for their choices when we know nothing about their options.
It’s easy to look at someone else’s life from a distance and assume we’d do it differently —
choose better, behave better, respond better.
But we rarely see the full picture:
the pressure they’re under,
the history they’re carrying,
the limitations they’re working within,
or the resources they’ve never had.
And to be clear — this isn’t about excusing harmful behaviour.
That’s not what this is about at all.
We’re not talking about the choices that clearly cross lines or cause obvious harm.
This is about the everyday decisions people make,
the ones shaped by circumstances, support systems, fears, access, opportunity —
and the pathways available (or unavailable) to them.
Some people are choosing between options we’ve never had to consider.
Some are making the best choice they can with what they’ve been given.
Some are simply trying to stay afloat in situations we’ve never lived through.
And the truth goes both ways:
we shouldn’t judge others when we don’t know their options —
and we shouldn’t let ourselves feel judged by people who know nothing about ours.
It’s easy to cast opinions from the outside.
It’s much harder to lead with humility, context, and compassion.
Kids learn that difference from us.
Empathy doesn’t mean agreement.
It means awareness —
and a softer, wiser way of moving through the world. ❤️
