10/21/2025
Are the healing practices you're engaging in helping to create space inside of you, or are they creating more constriction?
In somatic therapy, we work the felt sense of the body in the present moment - a process that engages so much more of our brain, and therefore has a deeper, long-lasting impact.
When insight arises from an embodied experience, it is often more meaningful, and can hit with a much more impactful "aha!"
However, for many of us, access to our internal sensations and emotions is hindered. It may not feel so safe inside.
Instead, what we experience in our internal world is a panel of critical voices, and internal pressure to fix or avoid everything inside that's so messed up.
If what you are doing to try to help yourself - whether it's meditation, journaling, yoga, art, etc - is creating more constriction inside of you, then it's important to remember that it's less about what you are doing, and more about the how.
The critical voices and ways that we pressure ourselves are often a result of introjection.
When we are in a situation in which we have to attach to survive - whether that's to a world that doesn't honor our dignity as a person of a marginalized identity, or a child who needs a neglectful or abusive caregiver to survive - our boundaries and identity become diffused.
The negative, critical, or dismissive voices projected onto us from the outside world are then taken by us and unconsciously introjected into our internal world.
Next time you notice a judgemental voice or an internal sense of pressure inside of you, slow down and ask where it's coming from.
How familiar is this? How far back in time does this go? Whose voice is this?
And if you need some support, please reach out.