Children Of Purpose Outreach LLC - COP OUT

02/05/2026

Gentle reminder: Self accountability is when you recognize that you can’t have clean windows to see others but have a dirty mirror when you look at yourself.

02/04/2026

Gentle reminder: Having a difference of opinion isn’t disrespectful it’s perspective. Someone having a different perspective doesn’t make your experience fact or fiction, it makes it different.

It’s okay to value the person even if you don’t value their opinion but it’s not okay to invalidate a person only because they don’t share your point of view.

Someone living an experience differently than you doesn’t make either of you wrong and they can both be true. Different doesn’t translate into problem or wrong it’s just different.

02/03/2026

Gentle reminder: It’s okay not to choose to be the villain or the hero and just simply be without pressure or demands.

02/02/2026

Gentle reminder: Sometimes clarity closes the door to confusion but opens the door to connecting back to you.

Peace and chaos can resides at the same table but you get to choose which one you want to hold. Peace is not the absence of chaos but stillness to not be moved when chaos arrives.

02/01/2026

01/29/2026

Gentle reminder: The difference between waiting on the right time and creating the right time is waiting on someone to open the door for you and opening the door for yourself.

Control is often just a state of mind waiting to be freed.

01/15/2026

Gentle reminder: Learn to not let someone change you into their image of you. You are somebody’s somebody just as you are.

01/14/2026

It’s wild how a parent can skip teaching emotional regulation and expression, then sprint straight to a mood disorder diagnosis and a prescription.

Children don’t arrive knowing life skills just like the adult who never learned them didn’t. MEDICATION IS NOT THE BYPASS FOR PARENTING.

01/14/2026

Gentle reminder: Perfectionism is just shame dressed up in shiny wrapping paper. The thicker the layers, the harder you’re trying to convince the world and yourself that you’re not “broken” or flawed.

To be human is to be flawed.

01/13/2026

Gentle reminder: Healing doesn’t mean you stop feeling pain or you have immunity to discomfort. You may still get triggered, you may still react at times but feelings are the evidence of humanity not regression.

Perfection is not progress, feeling doesn’t cancel your growth it confirms it.

01/12/2026

Gentle reminder: A shared struggle doesn’t make you twins and similar trauma doesn’t make you the same person. Their story might inspire you, but it’s not a survival manual for your life.

Learn to receive the lesson without using their blueprint to build.

01/09/2026

Gentle reminder: Tread softly with hearts that are still learning that love doesn’t have to hurt. The mind may understand the difference between love and danger, but the body remembers a different language.

For some, danger wasn’t a stranger it arrived wrapped in affection, spoken quietly through the words “I love you.”