Allies in Recovery, Northampton, MA (2025)

08/28/2025

Read Dominique's message to the community and get the full update here: https://alliesinrecovery.net/pause/

Visit our YouTube channel and watch our eLearning videos for free, here: https://www.youtube.com/

Thank you to all our members, and incredible team, for the journey thus far. We hope to be announcing our re-opening before too long!

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08/07/2025

“Humor is a release,” insists Kayla Solomon. If you can laugh, the perceived danger dissipates. Co-host Suzanne shares, “Even in the face of total darkness, we can laugh at the insanity. I think the line between humor and tragedy is very, very fine indeed.”

LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/coming-up-for-air-families-speak-to-families-about/id1227530792?l=en&i=1000719042583

In this lighthearted episode, our team offers deep thoughts about humor, including how to access it… as well as some unexpected tips such as co-host Elizabeth’s “viking horns” recommendation.

Find out which caveat Kayla warns about as you pursue your quest to bring more humor into your world.

Starting in August, the support group that Kayla Solomon facilitates (and that our podcast team is part of) will be offered on a sliding scale.

Wednesdays at 6:30pm ETEmail kaylacraftgroup@gmail.com to join or learn more
(Cost should not be a barrier— please reach out if you're interested)

LISTEN ON SPOTIFY: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/isacooney/episodes/FAMILIES-Speak-Raising-Our-Vibration-with-Humor-e3617pi

LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/coming-up-for-air-families-speak-to-families-about/id1227530792?l=en&i=1000719042583

In our FAMILIES Speak series, psychotherapist Kayla Solomon invites members from the support group she facilitates for Allies in Recovery to share their experiences navigating addiction in the family. These parents have faced similar struggles to so many others—but with Allies in Recovery, they’ve found a new way forward.

photo courtesy of prince-akachi via unsplash

07/09/2025

Join Kayla from Allies and Other Parents Like Me this Thursday, July 10th for a free talk!

07/01/2025

This is much more than getting a mani-pedi my friends.

Listen on Apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/coming-up-for-air-families-speak-to-families-about/id1227530792?l=en&i=1000675400780

Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/17tKkEqmpHhCEtGmYxMeqJ?si=EKRtiy9LSB-5c8q1qPMc3A

Self-care is a pillar of CRAFT (listen to find out WHY).
And helping yourself is essential to helping your Loved One (listen to understand this precept).

A lot of CRAFT focuses on a parent trying to help an adult child, so how do we shift things in a partner relationship so we're able to play the starring role in our own lives? Is there room to focus on ourselves when our Loved One is not showing up in the relationship, family, or household?

Partner CRAFT is a podcast series by Allies in Recovery⁠ that focuses on applying the CRAFT method with a romantic partner (or ex-partner) struggling with addiction.

Co-hosts Kayla Solomon (psychotherapist, IMAGO counselor, and Allies in Recovery group facilitator) and Isabel Cooney (Allies in Recovery team member and ex-partner of a Loved One with addiction and mental health struggles) discuss the unique challenges of using CRAFT in these relationships—and how it can transform them.

Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/17tKkEqmpHhCEtGmYxMeqJ?si=EKRtiy9LSB-5c8q1qPMc3A

Listen on Apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/coming-up-for-air-families-speak-to-families-about/id1227530792?l=en&i=1000675400780

A membership at Allies in Recovery gives you unlimited access to:

✔ Step-by-step CRAFT training tailored for families and partners
✔ Support groups and a community that understands
✔ A Q&A blog with expert guidance
✔ And much more!

Visit https://alliesinrecovery.netto learn about our membership options, read our blog posts, meet our team, and much more!

06/27/2025

In this special 'Dads' episode, five fathers brilliantly lay it all out for us and help us to better understand their internal journeys — as well as highlighting some foundational differences in the ways that Dads and Moms might address their children's substance use/mental health struggles.

Listen on apple podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/coming-up-for-air-families-speak-to-families-about/id1227530792?l=en&i=1000712806745

Listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3tKNgx6zFyk9MNq7bDMDG6?si=0b80134efc5d4d74

What IS different about how Moms and Dads approach the work? These dads suggest that the love felt for their Loved One is equal, but the interactions are quite different. James,a father of four, points out that Dads are often focused on detaching from their young adult sons, in order to let them become more independent—and this can also be exacerbated by the contrast of Moms being more involved, more drawn to "care-taking."

Learning the CRAFT method and the Allies in Recovery toolkit has given parents common language and references that facilitate their own communications and dynamics around their approaches with their Loved Ones.

The more we stay curious, interested and non-judgmental, the more power we have to positively impact the situation.

We hope you enjoy this episode and would love to hear from you – write us at support@alliesinrecovery.net.

Listen on apple podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/coming-up-for-air-families-speak-to-families-about/id1227530792?l=en&i=1000712806745

Listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3tKNgx6zFyk9MNq7bDMDG6?si=0b80134efc5d4d74

A membership at Allies in Recovery provides:

✔ A structured online platform to learn CRAFT skills step by step
✔ Support groups and a community that truly understands
✔ A Q & A blog with expert advice
✔ And much more!

Start today—visit ⁠https://alliesinrecovery.net⁠ to begin creating change in your family.

06/25/2025

FAMILIES Speak: Navigating Life with Our Dad Who Drinks Problematically, Part 1

Listen on spotify: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/isacooney/episodes/FAMILIES-Speak-Navigating-Life-with-Our-Dad-Who-Drinks-Problematically--Part-1-e306e65

Listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/coming-up-for-air-families-speak-to-families-about/id1227530792?l=en&i=1000699241726

An honest and deeply real account from two sisters. They were pre-teens when their parents split up and they started to see the signs their Dad had a serious drinking problem. Their mom began using CRAFT with him and the girls navigated as best they could. Fast forward 13 years: they're young adults, both living far away. How have they been affected and where are they today?
The CRAFT method was designed for any family member to use with a Loved One suffering from addiction and/or mental health issues. Allies in Recovery guides you through the steps with videos, exercises, Q & A discussion blogs and live support groups. The toolkit you gain will benefit both you and your Loved One. Learn more ⁠here⁠.
In addition to our podcast with over 275 episodes, Allies in Recovery provides online learning modules, expert hand-tailored guidance, CRAFT support groups, info on treatment options, and much more.

Learn about membership options on alliesinrecovery.net ♥️

06/20/2025

Dear allies of Allies, can we ask a favor?

Could you go to our youtube channel and click "SUBSCRIBE"? (This simply means that when we post a new video, you'll be notified if your yt notifications are activated).

Of course, we wouldn't stop you if you also wanted to watch some of the sample video modules we've made available to the public, and "Like" them!

🥰 Many thanks, and Hugs for you today!

https://www.youtube.com/

06/17/2025

Read the post here: https://alliesinrecovery.net/still-behind-the-wheel/

An Allies member is facing some tough choices. Her son has just lost his license but is continuing to drive—on her insurance, in a car she owns. Does she step back and let him face the consequences of his choices? Does she intervene right away, and if so, how?

Allies writer Laurie MacDougall points out that no one can make such decisions for us. But through seven thoughtful questions, she offers a guide to making them ourselves.

"My son lost his license yesterday and he is still driving today. Do I do anything, or just let the chips fall where they may? He is likely going to go to jail for 30 days if he gets caught. I don’t want to be the one to get him in trouble, but he won’t listen to me either. Plus, the vehicle and the insurance are in my name."

Thank you for writing in!

What I am hearing in your post is that you feel pushed and pulled at the same time. The car and the insurance are in your name, so you are worried about the consequences you might incur if he is using the car without a license. On the other hand, you don’t want to be the one responsible for your son experiencing negative consequences for his actions. (...)

Read the full post here: https://alliesinrecovery.net/still-behind-the-wheel/

Clinically proven results -

Allies in Recovery is the best approach

93% of families surveyed found Allies In Recovery reduced their anxiety, worry, and anger
80% said Allies in Recovery was helpful in getting their loved one to accept care
67% found Allies in Recovery helpful in reducing their loved one’s use of drugs and alcohol

Learn more or sign up at https://alliesinrecovery.net

06/15/2025

♥️♥️ Father's Day special episode of the FAMILIES Speak podcast series: Dads Doing the Work ♥️♥️

Listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/coming-up-for-air-families-speak-to-families-about/id1227530792?l=en&i=1000712806745

Listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3tKNgx6zFyk9MNq7bDMDG6?si=53822219857b4ed8

Five Dads come together with psychotherapist Kayla Solomon for a fascinating chat about the work they're doing around their children's substance use/recovery.

What's different about how Moms and Dads approach the work? They suggest that the love felt for their Loved One is equal, but the interactions are quite different.

James, a father of four, points out that Dads are often focused on detaching from their young adult sons, in order to let them become more independent—and this can also be exacerbated by the contrast of Moms being more involved.

Dads and Moms might have completely different approaches to parenting their addicted adult children, but this is OK. Learning the CRAFT method and the Allies in Recovery toolkit has given parents common language and references that facilitate their own communications and dynamics around their approaches with their Loved Ones.

The more we stay curious, interested and non-judgmental, the more power we have to positively impact the situation. These fathers lay it all out for us and help us to better understand their internal journeys.

Allies in Recovery salutes all the Dads out there who are doing the work of recovery alongside their Loved Ones with Substance Use Disorder and/or mental health struggles. We need you, Dads! Thank you to the inspiring fathers/allies who shared their stories and wisdom on this episode. ♥️♥️

A membership at Allies in Recovery provides:

✔ A structured online platform to learn CRAFT skills step by step
✔ Support groups and a community that truly understands
✔ A Q&A blog with expert advice
✔ And much more!

Start today—visit ⁠https://alliesinrecovery.net⁠ to begin creating change in your family.

06/12/2025

Kayla and Isabel speak with Mississippi native Jane Clair Tyner, the former Communications Manager of the dynamic education and advocacy organization, End It For Good.

Listen to Jane Clair's story on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/coming-up-for-air-a-toolkit-to-help-with-your-loved/id1227530792?i=1000705903939

Listen to the conversation on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3KylLjmTPGTOvqYhLB2SZ0?si=13a2fcee2eb747cd

Jane Clair describes the "Thank God moment" she had when she first discovered the CRAFT method, albeit bittersweet: she had already lost her first-born son to drug-related complications. She weighs in on the current challenge faced by Allies in Recovery and so many other organizations who are losing their funding because of the current administration. Find out what Jane Clair Tyner sees as the best possible ways to shine light on the situation and move things forward. A beautiful and inspiring conversation.

End It For Good (founded by Christina Dent, who we've interviewed several times) promotes health-based alternatives to drugs, and fights against the criminalization of drug use.

Learn more here: www.EndItForGood.com

At Allies in Recovery, we train, guide, and support families using the CRAFT method—an evidence-based approach that helps families shift the dynamic with a loved one struggling with addiction. Self-care is a cornerstone of this process, but for many, it’s something we have to learn from scratch.

A membership at Allies in Recovery gives you unlimited access to:
✔ Step-by-step CRAFT training through our online learning platform
✔ Support groups and a community that understands what you're going through
✔ A Q&A blog with expert guidance
✔ And much more!

Visit Allies in Recovery to start your new path towards healing addiction in your family.
https://alliesinrecovery.net/

Listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/coming-up-for-air-a-toolkit-to-help-with-your-loved/id1227530792?i=1000705903939

Listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3KylLjmTPGTOvqYhLB2SZ0?si=13a2fcee2eb747cd

06/02/2025

listen on apple pocasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/coming-up-for-air-a-toolkit-to-help-with-your-loved/id1227530792?i=1000710623052

listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/35hx2ReyoAAQnwyE8Zkiqh?si=JGr5sqRmQpmSUUCIgBrXXQ

How did Casie Fariello and Liz Reitman come to build Parents Like Me , an impressive network of worldwide support meetings, expert talks and much more?

Kayla speaks with Casey and Liz of OPLM, who describe themselves as "two moms determined to make a difference." The organization supports and educates parents with kids going through mental health challenges of all kinds, often including substance use.

For more about OPLM, visit oplm.com.

At Allies in Recovery, we train, guide, and support families using the CRAFT method—an evidence-based approach that helps families shift the dynamic with a loved one struggling with addiction. Self-care is a cornerstone of this process, but for many, it’s something we have to learn from scratch.

A membership at Allies in Recovery gives you unlimited access to:
✔ Step-by-step CRAFT training through our online learning platform
✔ Support groups and a community that understands what you're going through
✔ A Q&A blog with expert guidance
✔ And much more!

Visit Allies in Recovery (alliesinrecovery.net) to start your new path towards healing addiction in your family.

05/26/2025

Listen to 'Rupture & Repair' on our podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/coming-up-for-air-families-speak-to-families-about/id1227530792?l=en&i=1000646665013

Every relationship is a 2-way street. No matter how good our intentions, we mess up some times and step on somebody's toes, hurt their feelings or anger them.

This is human. And the power in the situation is our ability to repair the ruptures.

Step 9 in the 12-step programs is 🙏🏽Making Amends🙏🏽 — why? Because we can. Because we're better people when we accept that vulnerability and admit our part. Because others start trusting us again when they see we can admit we're wrong sometimes.

12-step programs are for your Loved One with addiction problems, you say? True. But what we've seen again and again, and what we teach here at Allies in Recovery shows that transformation and family-wide recovery happens when the family members begin to look at their own part in things.

You will be ✨amazed✨ at how your relationships begin to change when you start righting your wrongs ❤

Listen to 'Rupture & Repair' on our podcast.

On apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/coming-up-for-air-families-speak-to-families-about/id1227530792?l=en&i=1000646665013

On spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6LmzWhLiF46OJZFzWMSsWG?si=0b1vI37OQuqye_gM46sSTA

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