01/26/2026
Trauma isn’t about what you remember.
It’s about how your body learned to respond.
Even when you know something is over, your nervous system may still react as if it’s happening now. That’s why triggers can feel sudden, intense, or confusing — and why logic alone doesn’t always make them stop.
These reactions aren’t a failure to “move on.” They’re signs of a body that once did exactly what it needed to do to keep you safe.
Healing isn’t about forcing yourself forward. It’s about helping your nervous system learn that the present is different — gently, over time.
If your reactions confuse you, this might be worth saving.