Benjamin Funeral Services

04/16/2026

During National Telecommunications Week, we want to take a moment to recognize and thank the dispatchers who serve as the first calm voice in moments of uncertainty.

At Benjamin Funeral Home, we understand how important your role is. You are often the first point of contact in difficult situations, offering guidance, reassurance, and compassion when it's needed most.

As a small token of our appreciation, we were honored to provide a gift to help say "thank you" for all that you do. Your dedication does not go unnoticed, and our community is stronger because of you.

We are truly grateful for your service, your sacrifice, and your unwavering commitment to others.💙💛

04/16/2026

Today is National Healthcare Decisions Day. A reminder to put your wishes into words and make your decisions known.

04/14/2026

There’s no timeline for grief. Be gentle with yourself, and remember every step forward matters.

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04/10/2026

Jack William Adams

Jack William Adams, former longtime Nowata, Oklahoma resident, passed away in the early hours of Wednesday, April 8, 2026, at Sunrise of Overland Park, Kansas.

Jack William Adams, son of Raymond Adams and Cloe (Bybee) Adams, was born March 14, 1928, in Blackwell, Oklahoma. He grew up on a farm in the Morrison and Pawnee area of Oklahoma. He attended the Lela and New Lela elementary schools. He joined the Marines during his senior year at Pawnee High School. He was Recruiting Sergeant and never left the Continental United States during World War II. Jack married JoAnne Ramsey in 1948. They made their home in Enid, where Jack worked as apprenticeship at a local funeral home. JoAnne supported the family as a long-distance telephone operator while Jack finished college, and she completed her accounting degree. In 1954, they moved to Nowata and Jack went to work at Benjamin Funeral Service as a licensed Embalmer and Funeral Director, a post he would hold as long as the firm continued to re-new his license (over 70 years). Jack admired and considered the fine people he worked with as his close friends. He was very proud of the Community and Nowata County. Even though Jack and JoAnne both (officially) retired on December 31, 1990, Jack continued to work when needed at the funeral home and managed to take English and Computer classes at Rogers State University for several semesters.

JoAnne passed away in 2010. Their daughter, Lynda Adams, died in 2013 as well as son-in-law, John Ware, and a brother, Charley, passing in 2004, a sister, Ilene Pershall, passing in 2021, and a brother, Gene, passing in 2024.

Jack is survived by a son, Daryl Adams and Todd Linden, of Independence, Kansas; a daughter, Virginia Ware, and her husband, Lee Lawrence of Edmond, Oklahoma; a daughter, Janice Cooper and her husband, Greg of Overland Park, Kansas; and a son, Bryan Adams and his wife, Cindy of Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

Grandchildren include: Ryan Ware and his wife, Meredith of Abilene, Texas; Melissa Dodson and her husband, Bart of Oklahoma City; Adam Cooper and his wife, Karlie of Overland Park; Holly Fisher and her husband, Quinten of Overland Park; and Anna Ruelberg and her husband, Jeff of Olathe, Kansas; Cory Adams of Baton Rouge, Louisiana; Justin Adams and his wife, Anna of Monroe, Louisiana; and Betsy Adams of Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

Great-grandchildren include: Blake, Graham, and Fletcher Ware of Abilene, Texas; Jane and Annie Dodson of Oklahoma City; Jackson and Lainey Cooper of Overland Park; Crosby, Cohen, and Miles Jack Fisher of Overland Park; Josie and Abby Ruelberg of Olathe, Kansas; and Ezra Adams of Monroe, Louisiana.

Jack’s other surviving siblings and relatives include: Kenneth (Suzanne) Adams of Owasso, OK; Sue Adams (Gene) of Owasso, OK; James Adams of Pawnee, OK; Virgil (Becky) Adams

of Blue Springs, MO; Ruth McCray (Wayne) of Lubbock, TX; Lila Siler (George) of Broken Arrow, OK; and many nieces and nephews.

A visitation for Jack will be held on Sunday, April 12, 2026, at Benjamin Funeral Service, 114 W Cherokee Ave, Nowata, OK 74048, from 1:00 PM until 6:00 PM, with Jack's family present from 4:00 PM until 6:00 PM to receive guests. Funeral services for Jack will be held on Monday, April 13, 2026, at 10:00 AM at the Hillside Christian Church with Van Longbons officiating. Interment will follow at the Nowata Re-located Cemetery. Arrangements are under the direction of Benjamin Funeral Service. Online condolences for Jack may be left at www.honoringmemoriesnowata.com.

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04/10/2026

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04/09/2026

Paul Elledge

Paul Elledge was born in Nowata in 1937 to Pete and Luella (Crass) Elledge, and he spent his entire life in Nowata County. Growing up in this close-knit community, he attended Nowata Public Schools, where he graduated in 1955. Paul had a passion for roller skating, which led him to compete as a member of the Coffeyville Skating Team, showcasing his enthusiasm for the sport. Known for his friendly demeanor, Paul had a remarkable ability to connect with people, making friends effortlessly and treating everyone he met as a companion. His professional journey began at Landers Brothers Grocery, where he enjoyed interacting with customers, but he eventually transitioned to a long and fulfilling career at the Nowata Post Office. Paul dedicated many years to this role, ultimately retiring in 2006, leaving behind a legacy of service and camaraderie in his beloved hometown. He enjoyed giving back to his community through coaching little league and volunteering at numerous youth events. Paul had a profound passion for music and dancing, which he actively pursued through his involvement as a volunteer board member for the Bartlesville Two Steppers Club and the Nowata Jubilee. His dedication to these organizations showcased his love for music and dancing which affectionately earned him the nickname “Two Stepping Mail Man”!

Paul was the youngest of three siblings, with an older brother Jim Elledge and an older sister, Frances Elledge Walker who teased him endlessly about being the “baby” of the family! In 1958, he married Linda Barnes, marking the beginning of a new chapter in his life. This union brought forth two cherished children, Teresa Jo Elledge Standeford and Timothy Ray Elledge, who would grow to become significant figures in his life. The family shared many memorable moments together, creating a bond that would last through the years, as Paul navigated the joys and challenges of parenthood while maintaining close ties with his siblings.

Paul is survived by his daughter Teresa and son-in-law Butch Standeford, along with his grandchildren Jeremy Elledge, Levi Standeford and his wife Treasure, JJ Perkins and her husband Brad. He also leaves behind great-grandchildren Rory, Kylee, Justin Jr., Justine, Michelle, Jadyn, Jyntri, Codie, Dylan, Caleb and Katelynn, in addition to numerous great-great-grandchildren, his nephews Allan Walker and wife Carline, Mark Walker and wife Lucy, Doak Elledge and wife Marla, great niece and nephews Allyson Allen, Ty Elledge and Cole Elledge.

Pual was proceeded in death by his parents, siblings and his son Tim and grandson Justin Elledge and his nephews Bobby Dean Walker and Rusty Elledge.

Funeral services for Paul Elledge will be held on Saturday, April 18, 2026, at 10:30 am in the Benjamin Funeral Service Chapel. Interment will follow in the Memorial Park Cemetery, Nowata. Online condolences can be left at www.honoringmemoriesnowata.com or the Benjamin Funeral Home page. Arrangements are under the direction of the Benjamin Funeral Service, 114 W. Cherokee, Nowata. 918-273-2700

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04/09/2026

Brian Allen Dye III

Brian Allen Dye III, 31, of Nowata, OK, passed away on April 8, 2026.

Brian was born on March 22, 1995, in Bartlesville, OK, to his parents, Brian Allen Dye Jr. of Nowata, OK, and Sabrina Kay Rounds of Oroville, WA. Brian was a graduate of Nowata High school, later in life Brian met Michaela Hewiit and the two got married and welcomed to the world their son Bryson Lee to which was his world. He spent his life in and around Nowata, where he formed lasting bonds with family and friends.

Brian will be remembered for his big heart, his humor, his laugh that could fill a room, and his contagious smile. He had a deep love for the outdoors and enjoyed hunting and fishing. He also had a deep faith in God. Above all, he cherished the time he spent with his son, Bryson Lee Dye of Nowata, OK, who meant the world to him.

He is survived by his parents, Brian Allen Dye Jr. and Sabrina Kay Rounds; his son, Bryson Lee Dye of Nowata, OK; his siblings, Natasha Ember Johnson of Broken Arrow, OK, Naomi Emma Dye of Hoquiam, WA, Austen Tyler Dye of Oklahoma City, OK, and Megan Nix Dye of Moore, OK; and countless nieces and nephews, who knew and loved him as “Uncle Bubba”; along with other loving family members and friends.

He was preceded in death by his grandmother, Annetta Sue Dye, and his grandfather, Brian Allen Dye.

A memorial service will be held at First Church of God in Nowata, OK, at 2:00 p.m. on Saturday, April 18, 2026, with Pastor Wendell Abbott officiating. Additional details will be shared by the family. Online condolences can be left at www.honoringmemoriesnowata.com or the Benjamin Funeral Home page. Arrangements are under the direction of the Benjamin Funeral Service, 114 W. Cherokee, Nowata. 918-273-2700

Brian will be forever remembered in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.

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04/08/2026

Flowers speak a language of care and connection.

When words feel hard to find, these blossoms share love, memory, and support in meaningful ways.

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04/05/2026

Wishing you and your loved ones a blesses Easter.

03/30/2026

Linda Lou Osborn Reddick

Linda Lou Osborn Reddick, 87, longtime Bartlesville resident, passed Monday, Mar. 30, 2026, at Jane Phillips Hospital in Bartlesville following an extended illness. She was surrounded by her loving family. Linda was born on Dec. 22, 1938, in Nowata, OK to Tom and Alice (Beckwith) Osborn. She was a graduate of Nowata High School and worked for the Phillips Petroleum Company as a travel agent for many years. She married Steve Humphrey on Sept. 21, 1968 and together they lived in KC, MO, Miami, FL, Tallahassee Fl, Cedartown, GA, and Rocky Mount, NC. They had one child from their marriage, Lisa Ann Humphrey. Linda and Lisa were incredibly close throughout life. Linda and Steve divorced in 1981, after which she moved back to Oklahoma and resumed her career with Phillips Petroleum Company (thanks, Carolyn!). She married John Reddick on Nov. 16, 1984, and made their home in Bartlesville. Linda and John were lucky enough to enjoy a long retirement together filled with lots of excursions around the US. She loved being a grandmother to Ella Kai and in her later years enjoyed eating breakfast at the Midway Café with John, eating lunch and shopping with her sisters, taking day trips to Woolaroc, going for drives in the country to watch the wild horses, and feeding the outside kitties around her home. Linda was tough as a boot, surviving 2 strokes, and, by working incredibly hard in therapy, regained her speech and independence. She maintained a positive attitude and a can-do spirit throughout her life. She loved sports, especially the OSU Cowboys and the OKC Thunder. She was also a proud Washington County Democrat.Linda is survived by her husband, John Reddick of the home; daughter and daughter in law, Lisa and KC Humphrey of Omaha; granddaughter, Ella Kai Humphrey of Omaha; sisters Nyla Newton of Bartlesville, and Janie Benuzzi of Broken Arrow; as well as a host of other relatives and friends. She was preceded in death by her parents; sisters, Mary Myers, Joan Cary, and Margie Shannon.In lieu of flowers Linda would appreciate donations to Woolaroc in her memory. Funeral services for Linda will be held on Friday, April 3, 2026 in the Benjamin Funeral Chapel with interment directly following in the Memorial Park Cemetery, Nowata. Online condolences can be left at www.honoringmemoriesnowata.com or the Benjamin Funeral Home page. Arrangements are under the direction of the Benjamin Funeral Service, 114 W. Cherokee, Nowata. 918-273-2700

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03/30/2026

Today we recognize the doctors who serve our communities with integrity, compassion, and unwavering dedication.

Happy National Doctors’ Day!

03/30/2026

On National Mom & Pop Business Owner Day, we celebrate the family owned businesses that continue to guide their communities with heart.