04/20/2025
Your people pleasing isn’t just kindness…it’s fear.
Fear of being abandoned, fear of making people angry, fear of being too much, of losing love, of not being enough.
Your kindness was never the problem, the ones who took advantage of it were.
Love shouldn’t feel like something we have to earn. We are allowed to set boundaries without feeling guilty. Exhausting ourselves to make everyone else happy is not the answer. Real love will not ask you to abandon yourself!