12/02/2021
I hear this all the time. “But he’s really smart and has an excellent sense of humor. We think he’s actually smarter than our other child/students.” (Implying that the child couldn’t be dyslexic)
Your child can be dyslexic *and* “smart”.
Your child can be dyslexic *and* have exceptional skills.
Your child can be dyslexic *and* excel in other academic areas.
All day on most days, I work with dyslexic children and teens. All of them have individual exceptionalities where they shine brightest. Most of them are whip smart and blow me away with their many talents. Let’s consider reframing our thinking from the black and white idea of “smart” to instead, naming our children/teens’ strengths and areas for growth. And, let’s talk about these honestly with our children/teens to grow their awareness of and commitment to investing in their strengths while also putting in the work that needs to happen.
-Kristen
Children can be super bright and creative while still needing help for language-based learning differences. We are posting this because society has a stigma about getting help as if their is something "wrong with the child." Parents , family members, schools and others may say " the child does not need help because they are so bright or creative, we can wait and see, they are lazy/stubborn, they will grow out of it, give it more time" and other avoidance-based statements. We need to normalize the idea that it is alright to get help for any area of potential need. We can't wait until a situation is severe. It's better to start early for social and emotional reasons. Don't wait. Evaluate. Remediate. Feel great.