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09/13/2025

Today’s Community reading Saturday September 13, 2025

Balance of masculine and feminine

Today two cards present as one displaying the imbalance we are currently in. Our world is full of masculine energy, action, doing, calculating, destroying, hunting, scheming, plotting, and conspiring. At the same time it lacks many important masculine energy traits like protection, advocation, security, and leadership. This is toxic masculinity.

The feminine has been disregarded and diminished. There is no honoring of the feminine. No respect. Energies like nurturing, nourishing , comforting, tending, gathering, being, creating, healing, and birthing are not cherished they are demeaned.

It can’t be any surprise in a society where it openly used phrases like “the weaker sex” when referring to females. This isn’t new. We’ve been on this path for centuries across the globe. But if you are waking up day after day and watching the news wondering how we got here you have to know it isn’t new. And ironically it seems the more “fixes” are set in place the more repressed the feminine becomes.

Take the feminist movement for instance. Instead of recognizing the value of the feminine side of the partnership, it only offered females to participate in the masculine side of the equation creating a void of the feminine.

Being a “stay at home mom” was seen as a luxury -a status symbol- in some circles and looked down upon in others. It was never a luxury. It was a necessity and we are seeing the repercussions of that now.

When there was a parent at home raising their own children there were no school shootings. There was less bullying. The teen su***de rate was almost nonexistent compared today. There was no such thing as “latch key kids”. Communities took care of one another. There were fewer nursing home facilities. Our elderly could die in their own homes or in their family’s homes. Obesity was not an epidemic.

The problem is that it was seen as “woman’s work” and considered beneath a man. But this isn’t about men and women it’s about masculine and feminine. Either a man or a woman can provide either energy because we all have both within us. There would be no shame in a woman who wanted a career and a man who wanted to tend to the home and children.

What we have now is an economic system that takes two parents in the masculine just to support a family with the basics and the feminine is being fit into the empty spaces with whatever energy is leftover at the end of the day, OR it is being hired out to child care workers, maids, and chefs (including food services) which only increases the money going out.

Remedying this imbalance “out there” starts within. It is an inside job. Make sure you honor the feminine by having ample down time to tend to your own mental and emotional needs and that of your children and partners. Make sure there is plenty of quality time within the family and partnership not just “electronic babysitters”. If both partners are working then both partners should be cooking, cleaning and tending to the children. Financial responsibilities should be split fairly-which means proportionately based in what each makes, not 50/50 when one oartner makes aifnificantly less than the other.

Opt for leading rather than dictating. Protecting rather than controlling. Balance doing with being. Action with stillness. Indoors with outdoors .

Nurture yourself and one another. Make your thoughts and words be nourishing to your Spirit and the Spirits of others. Spend as much time developing and listening to your intuition as you do logic.

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09/12/2025

Today’s reading for September 12, 2025

Every human being carries the flame of Source through their lifetime. Every one. How they choose to carry that flame is free will. Every flame is as bright and hot as everyone else’s. Not more not less.

You might say “no that is not true. Some burn brighter than others.” No. Some simply allow their flame to be seen while others hide it. That gives the appearance that some are brighter but they are not.

And still others hide their flame with smoke and mirrors appearing as Source Flame. These are false flames.

Holding people in high esteem just because they have a lot of money, success and confidence is dangerous. True flame has no bearing on bank accounts or other definitions of success. That is smoke and mirrors and that is why scammers’ tactics work. It is how con men work. It is why love-bombing works. It is why corruption exists in powerful positions. False flames.

We’ve lost our way. This is why many fall prey to illusion and diversion tactics. False flames divide. Smoke and mirrors divide.

TRUE flame unites.

It doesn’t mean that we always agree with what someone says or does. It doesn’t mean we always understand why they see things the way they do. Just because we agree with someone does not mean we are seeing their Source Flame. Agreeing or disagreeing with others’ perspectives is no indication of Source. None. Just like someone being “successful” is no indication of Source. You only have to look at politicians, evangelists, church leaders, doctors, lawyers who have been exposed as hypocrites and criminals to see that.

Degrees on the wall, money in the bank or cars in the drive don’t indicate Source either.

Source energy-True Flame - brings people together to share different perspectives without anger, name calling, berating, shame, humiliation or ego.

It is not divisive, period. It is discerning, but not divisive. It seeks to understand not to undercut.

But here’s the most important part.

True Flame attracts True Flame. False flame repels True Flame. If you are tending to your own Flame, living by it, letting it shine authentically, you will attract and be attracted to others who are doing the same.

If however, you hide your Flame, are ashamed of it, or even afraid of it you will attract and be attracted to false flame. Instead of reaching inside yourself for authenticity and power, you will fall prey to tactics and deception.

True Flame is the only way to Light our world, nd right now our world is very dark. As the saying goes though, it is always darkest before the dawn.

Today is the day to assess if you are living by your True Flame. Keep your corner of the world lit with Source by allowing yours to shine. Do not fall prey to false flames. Do not be blinded by someone’s good looks, nice clothes, big bank accounts or flashy cars. Don’t fall for false advertising.

That path leads only to darkness and despair.

It is never too late to allow your Flame to shine. It may feel risky but risky is living in false truth. Risky is placing your Flame in someone else’s hands. Risky is being unable to discern between truth and fiction.

Risky is living in a world of smoke and mirrors.

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09/11/2025

Today’s reading Thursday September 11, 2025

Throw money at it.

Have you heard that expression: Throw money at the problem? It isn’t bad advice if your realize that it’s talking about currency and our real currency is not money but energy.

Money is simply a symbol, a token if you will, of energy. It allows us fair trade for things we cannot barter. My energy for your energy-equitable exchange. Money is a stand in for energy, but energy is the true currency. So when spirit says throw money at the problem it doesn’t necessarily mean pull out your debit card.

The challenge you are going through right now needs you to throw some currency at it- some current-cy, if you will. What you’ve been doing is stewing in the problem. Stewing is not good. Stewing means you are sitting in the energy of the problem instead of the energy of the solution.

You are worrying about the bad that could happen instead of wondering what good could come of it. You are anxious that you won’t be able to handle the situation instead of acknowledging the strength you’ve shown your entire life. You are trying to control the outcome rather than Trusting that Universe is designed to conspire on your behalf.

If you are an energy worker you know how emotions like worry and anxiety restrict energy flow. If you aren’t an energy worker then you’ll have to trust me. Negativity like worry, anxiety and pessimism restrict the flow of energy which then would be like trying to put out a five alarm fire with a garden hose instead of a regular fire hose.

So when you are thinking about this situation, especially when you feel worried or anxious about it, tap into positivity and direct that energy to the situation.

You don’t have to know the solution to be in the energy of the solution, you just have to believe there is one. Tap into how you will feel when the situation is resolved and send that energy to the issue.

You can also do this by just getting yourself into a feeling of love and send that love to the situation. If you are visual you can create a scene in your mind that represents the situation to make it easier. There really is not a wrong way to send solution energy to a challenge.

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09/09/2025

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09/09/2025

Healing has layers. Some days it’s peace.
Other days….just straight-up frustration. Because the pain didn’t have to happen like that.
But maybe that’s the point, to show you what wasn’t meant for you. To reveal who was never really for you. Even the unnecessary pain had a purpose: Clarity. 💚

09/09/2025

self-worth is so important, it is something a lot of us lack. So believe in yourself and change your belief patterns.

09/09/2025

Spread the message of love to all

09/09/2025

Today’s reading Tuesday September 9, 2025

Shed the version of you that no longer serves your purpose.

We all used to be someone else. Our 15 year old selves and our 35 year old selves are completely different versions of ourselves forged with time and experience. So why do we hold on so tightly to the person we used to be? Why is allowing our changing who we are such a difficult thing and accepting that change sometimes even harder.

How many success stories have you heard where the person had been a juvenile delinquent and grew up to be in law enforcement? Or a sick child grows up to be a doctor? Or maybe someone shy and meek grows up to be a motivational speaker on a big stage?

Most of our transformations are not that dramatic, but almost all of us have aspects of ourselves that no longer serve us. It can be hard to let go of behaviors or perspectives that helped us survive and cope with a traumatic past. But those survival skills turn into sabotage skills if we continue to use them rather than develop new healthy behaviors.

Think of military personnel. What they learn in boot camp helps them survive combat but those skills do not transfer to a guide for a healthy marriage. A marriage where one spouse comes home and expects their partner to follow orders will not last long.

The self you were did a very fine job of getting you this far but it no longer suits you and has become like a mask it is time to shed. You may have had to hide your authentic self in order to survive but now you are stepping into your own. It is time for your inner beauty to be seen. Your authentic self to take center stage of your life.

It might be time to quit that job that you realize is sucking your life force energy. It might be time to end a relationship that is doing you harm. There are many ways we shed people, places and beliefs that no longer serve us.

Today, write a letter to an older version of yourself from your authentic self. Use the following format: I’m sorry. Please forgive me. I forgive you. Thank you. And close with I love you. The Ho’oponopono chant makes an excellent format for such a letter.

It’s important to realize that the old versions of ourselves want to be transformed and released. They were born out of necessity not desire and all versions of ourselves serve to find happiness and joy.

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09/08/2025

Reading for monday septemebr 8, 2025

Watch out for that rabbit hole.

You’ve been going down a rabbit hole of negativity lately. It isn’t hard to do. It seems these days we are purposely being bombarded by negativity and it’s becoming an addiction to many.

If you haven’t seen “What The Bleep Do We Know?” This is your sign to find it and watch it. Negativity is just as addictive as any chemical drug and can destroy. Rain cells. It can also ruin relationships just like any other addiction.

There is healthy skepticism but don’t let that disguise negativity. Healthy skepticism has you be open to all information, not leaping to conclusions. Negativity is a “no” right off the bat requiring “convincing” to change your mind.

Negativity is a powerful frequency in all the worst ways. It destroys. It deters. It condemns. Negativity requires arguments rather than disagreements. It requires debate rather than discussion. It requires confrontation rather than conversation.

Negativity is black or white. Right or wrong. It’s rigid and unforgiving. It is presumptive and assuming.

The more you entertain negative thinking the stronger those pathways in your brain become. They trigger stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline which become addictive after repetition simply because they feel familiar thus bringing a sense of comfort.

The more you focus on the negative the more negative you will experience and the more negative you will seek out to experience. This is why “trolling” on the internet is a thing. People seeking out the negative to get their “fix”.

The answer isn’t to be Pollyanna nor does it mean you ignore negative events and the unpleasant feelings they bring up but it does mean you have a choice to shift your perspective.

Your feelings are valid. All of them. You just don’t have to let them control you. Your feelings are related to your thoughts and your thoughts are related to your beliefs.

If your are one who tends to ask “why is this happening to me?” Start asking yourself “why is this happening FOR me right now?”

If you find yourself just having gone down a negative rabbit hole, take some time to go down an opposing rabbit hole. For instance say you’ve experienced a recent traumatic event (a breakup or job loss, not a death or crime) and you’ve been dwelling on it. Odds are you’ve gone down a rabbit hole of all the negative things that could potentially happen as a result of it. Allow yourself equal time to explore the potential positives that could also come out of the event.

Eliminate/avoid the rabbit holes you can. Mainstream news, politics, “trash” tv, are all places where negativity dominates so use caution and discernment. Pay attention to the people you spend time with as well, negativity is very contagious.

Practice positivity by catching your immediate negative reaction and ask yourself what another way to look at it might be. Just be careful because just as chronic negativity is toxic, chronic positivity is denial and that is also toxic. But that is not today’s reading.

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09/06/2025

Happy Saturday beautiful friends 🧡
Hope I find you all well on this beautiful day 🌞
Today i just wanted to remind you to be present. We cant control.the future or the past! So for now just sit here in the present enjoying every single moment each and every day xx

09/06/2025

Today’s reading September 6, 2025

When you feel like you’ve been buried, maybe you were planted.

You feel stuck. Buried. Stagnant. No idea what to do next or what step to take. This comes after a period of great growth and movement so it feels like depression.

The truth is we experience four seasons just like the earth. We have seasons of spring where ideas are budding, connections are starting to be made and we feel hopeful. We have seasons of summer where those ideas take shape and bloom and we reap rewards. We have seasons of fall where things begin to fall away or we begin to let go. And we have seasons of winter where everything seems dark and dormant and we ache for days of summer.

This is where you are right now. Like a bulb lies in the earth dormant after the summer of blooming.

Here’s the thing though. You aren’t really dormant. It is just the time to sit quiet and observe. Pay attention now to the things you were too busy for before. You’ve bloomed and then you let go of things that no longer served you. you need time to see how those choices will play out.

It isn’t about being lazy, but it is about not doing. It’s about watching. Observing. It’s about honoring your cycles. It’s about seeing what all your previous activity has gained you. It is time to evaluate what the choices you made and risks you took created in your life.

It’s time to sit still and observe, like a party guest sitting quietly in a corner with a notepad. Assess your life from every perspective and prepare for spring to come! Don’t rush it. Don’t try to “push” through it. Embrace this time of reflection and non-doing.

Look for messages from Spirit and rest.

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