01/17/2026
Do you ever wish you could shift your mindset and make becoming a single mom by choice feel like an empowered choice? 💥
Do you feel regret , even failure, about not having found a partner. Does becoming a single mom by choice feel like a consolation prize?
What if becoming an SMC could feel like an empowered choice? Not the 2nd best option, but awesome.
Shifting into a place where you feel empowered isn’t always easy. It can take effort to retrain your brain, emotions and body.
Here are some fun exercises to try to help shift your mindset.
💥 Head :
What if you rewrote your narrative to see your choices in the best possible way. Instead of beating yourself up for staying in a bad relationship too long, you could see everything you learned & have compassion for yourself for staying. Go thru the events of your life and find the positive spin.
💥 Heart
Put your hand on your heart, take a few deep breaths. Feel into your bod,. Feel your heart opening and connect to the question: Why do I want to be a mother? Connect to your love and desire to be a mother. Let your heart speak about your capacity to love!
💥 Gut
If you were walking down the street and felt like an amazing, empowered single mom who could do it all? How would you walk? Really let it seep into your bones. What if this was your reality? Now bookmark these sensations and try to walk down the street with this pride and confidence.
It takes practice. This mindset shift isn’t something that’s necessarily gonna shift overnight. I recommend coming back to this process over and over again. Let all three centers speak and practice the feelings over and over again.
If you’d like to join a group of like-minded women grappling with the thinking and trying process, join my Motherhood Reimagined SMC Community.
Here's the link :https://motherhoodreimagined.com/single-mom-by-choice-community-forum/?utm_campaign=meetedgar&utm_medium=social&utm_source=meetedgar.com