10/09/2025
🌿 Softening Around Change + New Announcement!
Lately, I’ve been noticing how many of us are feeling a little unsteady. Between all that’s happening politically and economically, it’s no wonder there’s a quiet hum of unease, a sense that the future feels uncertain. In my practice, I’m seeing this show up as job loss, divorce, big life leaps, and identity shifts. These are moments that bring both fear and possibility.
Our nervous systems crave safety, yet the world doesn’t always feel safe. As John O’Donohue wrote, “Change awakens a great longing in the heart, a desire to step into the unknown while still holding onto what is familiar.” That longing to move forward while staying anchored is very much alive right now.
Even positive change can rattle our systems. Neuroscience tells us that uncertainty triggers the brain’s alarm center, which can make us feel anxious, restless, or slip into over-controlling. What helps most isn’t bracing harder. It’s softening. Pausing. Letting the body and heart catch up.
One way to do this is to check in with yourself: Where am I holding tension right now? What happens if I breathe into that space with a little kindness? This month I invite you to try a 10-minute Guided Body Scan under the Guided Meditations Tab on my website to settle in and reconnect with a sense of calm.
If therapy has felt out of reach, especially during uncertain times, know that support is here. I’m happy to share that my practice is now in-network with Aetna insurance, making it easier to access care. I have openings for individual and couples therapy, and my amazing team of associate therapists does too.
If you’ve been longing for a space to feel grounded, seen, and gently supported through change, we’re here for you. 🌼
— Elana