11/13/2025
For 27 years Toni Merleno has been Kendal at Oberlin’s Director of Human Resources, but like many jobs her responsibilities have evolved over the years. Currently she has responsibility for Hospitality Services and Kendal Early Learning Center and formerly was risk manager for 20 years.
Working with older adults has been a good fit for Toni, which is one reason she has been with Kendal for so many years. “Even when I was young I considered myself an ‘old soul’ born 50 years too late! I have always been drawn to older adults. I find they have lived such diverse rich lives with an abundance of wisdom/experiences to share if we just make the time to listen to them,” she says.
The other main reason for her tenure at Kendal is its Quaker values. “They have guided our Oberlin community to a great level of success that stands out in the entire Kendal family of affiliates. These values also have made a huge impression on me personally, and I will always cherish the opportunity to serve and work here as well as the privilege to know our wonderful staff and residents,” Toni says.
Those values were key to Kendal community’s success during the pandemic, she says. “No one was laid off and it was great to see such positive attitudes among staff members doing cleaning/sanitizing areas, testing, and many other needed jobs.”
As Toni nears retirement, though a date has not been determined, she thinks about how Kendal residents have navigated their transition. “I am a self-confessed workaholic and retirement for me will probably mean finding another job. My attitude has been shaped by seeing how our residents move here and then pick up activities of service: volunteering thousands of hours annually at a variety of nonprofits in the county, pursuing their passions for music, art and writing, and continuing their learning via Oberlin College and other academics. As we say, retirees come to Kendal at Oberlin to live and thrive and not to sit around and fade away,” she says
Toni’s interests include reading and writing – “I have an idea for a novel I’ve been playing with mentally for the past three decades” and studying the Bible. She is also a closet accordionist and loves music.