Pat Veitenthal BSN RN: You Wanna Know What I Think?

Pat Veitenthal BSN RN: You Wanna Know What I Think? Published in books, magazines, and journals, humorist, poet, & essayist Pat Veitenthal shares stories

01/12/2026
01/06/2026

an old, retired nurse should be treated with **respect and dignity for the rest of their life**.

A nurse didn’t just do a job—
they witnessed pain,
worked long nights,
and often put others’ lives before their own family.

After retirement, they deserve:

* **Respect** for their years of service and experience
* **Care** for their physical and emotional well-being
* **Security** through financial and social support
* **Dignity** in being heard and valued

It is society’s responsibility to show **gratitude, not neglect**, to those who stood beside us in our most vulnerable moments.

Honoring a retired nurse means
**honoring the entire healthcare system.**

01/06/2026

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗖𝗮𝗽 𝗙𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗱, 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗖𝗮𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗗𝗶𝗱𝗻’𝘁

Once, the nurse’s cap was like a crown—
quiet yet radiant, a symbol of courage and compassion.
It wasn’t just a piece of white cloth;
in every fold lived countless stories, countless sacrifices.
Hands that steadied trembling hearts,
eyes that saw pain but never turned away.

Each cap carried a legacy—
a senior’s gentle guidance,
a grandmother’s silent prayer,
sleepless nights spent beside a dying child.
It was a vow, stitched not in thread but in devotion—
“I will stay, as long as someone needs me.
I will not leave, as long as there is a spark of hope.”

Today, those caps are gone—
lost to new rules, new uniforms, new times.
Yet, in the quiet corridors of hospitals,
you can still hear their echo—
the soft rustle of fabric,
the rhythm of weary footsteps,
the silent prayer behind every steady gaze.

The cap may no longer rest on our heads,
but it still lives in every touch—
in the hand that holds another through pain,
in the nurse who smiles through her tears and whispers,
“It’s going to be okay.”

The cap is gone, but its spirit remains—
in our hearts, in our care, in our quiet courage.
It still whispers:
“Stand tall. Love deeply. Never let anyone feel alone.”

Because nursing is not just a profession—
it is a prayer,
a promise that never end

12/30/2025
12/30/2025
She’s spot on here…
12/10/2025

She’s spot on here…

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11/23/2025

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Lynda Van Devanter was 21 when she volunteered to go to Vietnam. Fresh out of nursing school, full of purpose, she wanted to save lives while other Americans her age protested the war.
They sent her to Pleiku—the 71st Evacuation Hospital, right on the Cambodian border, one of the deadliest combat zones in the entire war.
What she found there changed her forever.
Helicopter after helicopter. Boys—because that's exactly what they were, eighteen and nineteen years old—with wounds that defied comprehension. Legs gone. Faces burned beyond recognition. Chests torn open by shrapnel.
Lynda worked twelve-hour shifts that became twenty-hour marathons. She'd stand in blood-soaked scrubs, holding a dying soldier's hand while surgeons fought to save him, watching the light leave his eyes, then immediately turning to the next stretcher because there were always more.
In one year, she witnessed more death than most people see in ten lifetimes.
She came home in 1970, and America pretended she'd never left.
Male veterans were spat on, called killers, told to forget and move on. But at least people acknowledged they'd been there. Women veterans? They were ghosts.
"What did you do in Vietnam?"
"I was a nurse."
"Oh, like MAS*H? That must have been fun."
No one wanted to hear about the teenager who bled out in her arms. No one wanted to know about the nightmares that woke her screaming, the way she'd hit the floor at loud noises, the smell of disinfectant that made her vomit.
The VA didn't recognize her. PTSD wasn't officially real yet. And when mysterious illnesses started destroying her body—aching joints, crushing fatigue, her immune system attacking itself—doctors dismissed it as "anxiety" and "women's problems."
She was dying from Agent Orange exposure, the same chemical that stripped Vietnamese jungles now stripping away her life. But no one would listen.
So Lynda did something revolutionary: she refused to be silent.
In 1979, she co-founded the Vietnam Veterans of America Women's Project. For the first time, women veterans had an organization that said: You were there. You sacrificed. You count.
Then in 1983, she published "Home Before Morning: The Story of an Army Nurse in Vietnam."
It was the first major book by a woman veteran about the war. Brutally honest. Unflinching. About the gore and the death and the sexual harassment and the way women were used for morale then erased from history.
The book became a bestseller. Suddenly, America couldn't look away.
Lynda appeared on national television. She testified before Congress. She spoke at schools across the country. She wrote about PTSD in women veterans, about Agent Orange, about how 11,000 women had served in Vietnam and most Americans never knew they existed.
She fought to get women's names on the Vietnam Veterans Memorial. She battled for women to receive the same VA benefits as male veterans. She proved that women's service was just as valid, just as sacrificial, just as worthy of honor.
And the entire time, she was dying.
Systemic collagen vascular disease—her body attacking itself from the inside. She knew it was Agent Orange. She'd breathed it, touched equipment coated in it, eaten food from contaminated soil.
But proving the connection meant fighting the government, which didn't want to acknowledge the full scope of Agent Orange damage—especially not in women, because that meant expanding compensation.
Even as her body failed, Lynda never stopped fighting.
The greatest tribute came from thousands of women veterans who wrote to her, called her, stopped her at events to whisper: "Thank you for making them see us."
Because that's what Lynda Van Devanter did. She made America see.
She made them see the nurses who held dying soldiers. The women who served in combat zones. The female veterans who came home shattered and were told they didn't exist.
She made them see that PTSD destroys regardless of gender. That Agent Orange poisoned everyone it touched. That 11,000 women served in Vietnam and came home to a country that pretended they hadn't.
On November 15, 2002, Lynda Van Devanter died at her home in Arlington, Virginia. She was 55 years old.
Vietnam had taken thirty-three years to kill her, but it killed her just as surely as if she'd been shot in Pleiku.
At her funeral, hundreds came—women veterans she'd advocated for, soldiers whose lives she'd saved, activists she'd inspired. They honored a woman who spent her entire adult life serving: first saving soldiers, then saving veterans.
The Vietnam War killed 58,000 Americans whose names are carved into the Wall.
But it also killed thousands more slowly—through Agent Orange, through PTSD, through illnesses that took decades to manifest.
Lynda Van Devanter was one of them.
And before she died, she made absolutely certain that women veterans would never again be invisible.
Today, when we talk about women in combat, when we acknowledge PTSD in female veterans, when we recognize that women have always served in America's wars—we owe that legacy to Lynda Van Devanter.
She didn't just save lives in Vietnam.
She saved the dignity, recognition, and benefits of every woman veteran who came after her.
She held the line in Pleiku. She held the line for women veterans. And she never surrendered.
You were a hero twice, Lynda—once on the battlefield, and once in the decades of advocacy that followed.
And we will never let your story be forgotten.

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