04/23/2024
#2 Why does it feel good to know you have the capability of creating ease, comfort and mobility in your own body?
When you experience muscle tension and pain, you have the agency to lie down on the floor and give your body a calm, simple, relaxed experience that changes your personal reality in the moment. You have the opportunity to choose to quiet down the "fight, flight or flee" aspect of your nervous system and enhance "rest and digest" which is most effective at relaxing muscle tension and pain.
A couple weeks ago, I hurt myself and couldn't get off the floor. I felt fear, anxiety and agitation kick in and I knew my Sympathetic Nervous System (fight, flight or flee) was responding to the threat my body was experiencing. Instead of getting taken away by fear or anxiety, I stopped myself and addressed my breath. I asked myself, "what is the easiest, most relaxing breath I can experience right now?" I did that for quiet awhile until I felt like I could experiment with a couple movements.
Next, I did simple, easy versions of the Somatic Movements. I listened to my body as weight shifted, muscles contracted, and muscles relaxed. I did only one movement at a time and let myself relax completely into the floor before I started another movement so my nervous system could feel complete relaxation.
Addressing my body and emotional state in this way helped me take back control. I intentionally created what I wanted to experience in my own body. Why? Because I knew I could change the state of my nervous system by changing my response to the fear of pain. And repeating that response switched my nervous system from fight, fight or flee to rest and digest.
In his presentation, "How to break the addiction to negative thoughts and emotions," Joe Dispenza said that when a predator is chasing its prey, the prey is only concerned about 3 things: body, environment, and how much time it takes to get to safety.
What does this have to do with muscle comfort and mobility?
When there is any kind of discomfort, tension, panic or disruption in the body, the Sympathetic Nervous System (responsible for fight, flight or flee) becomes dominant over the Parasympathetic Nervous System (rest & digest). The Sympathetic Nervous System interrupts the brain and creates tunnel vision of obsession or concentration on three things:
(1) body (safety, fixing ourselves);
(2) environment (being in control);
(3) time (is there enough time to flee and most efficient coordination of body to get to safety).
While predator and prey can recover from stress pretty easily, humans tend to habituate the stress response and causes an obsession about:
(1) our bodies: fixing a perceived problem like pain, appearance (shape, weight, form, exercise, sloth), achievement, failure, exhaustion, etc.
(2) environment (trying to control it at all costs);
(3) time (decreased coordination in the body's timing function, fear-producing thoughts about time, or attempting to control time by obsessing over time management)
How do we take back control?
Address the body and breath as it shows up in the moment. Drop any judgements, make small, simple, calm movements. For example, sense how weight shifts during a movement, make connections between body parts or notice where your breath is relaxing tension or adding tension. Take breaks in between each movement to feel relaxation. When you take time to experience these qualities, you experience what you want to feel.
(2) Environment: Instead of trying to control the outcome, use gravity to help you relax. Each movement is generally moving away from gravity and relaxing back down into gravity to rest. This becomes a calming, rhythmic pattern between yourself and the floor. Use all the props you need to be comfortable.
(3) Timing. Give yourself permission to clear your obligations or get help so you allow your nervous system to tell you how much time it needs to relax. When I hurt myself, I couldn't get off the floor very well for a couple of days. Because I listened and honored what my body was telling me, I was walking on day 3.
Second, slow down the movements, take your time with them. Your body is like a piece of written music with measures throughout called neurons. When you slow your movements down and listen to sensation, you lay down a trail along your neurons (which are like measures in music) that provide the information your brain needs to release and relax your body. If you go too fast, you skip segments of neurons which is like skipping measures in a piece of music.
Also, giving yourself time to pause, rest and breathe is like letting all 4 wheels of your car stop completely at a stop sign. The nervous system feels this and quiets stress hormones to relax your body.
How you respond to yourself when you feel tension, pain or stress can change the state of your nervous system. You can relax your nervous system and promote ease and comfort in your body, or you can let your nervous system get agitated by chasing a fix or allowing stress producing thoughts to take you away. What would it feel like to take a pause during the tension, pain or stress and ask yourself, "what would I rather be experiencing and feeling?" Then address your physical and emotional body in that way. If your answer was, I want to be pain free, then do simple, small movements in a pain free manner. I could hardly move when I hurt myself, but I figured out how to move myself with kindness. I tuned into the sensation in my body to ensure that every bit of movement was comfortable and easy. Have that experience over and over again so your nervous system can sync to it and create more of it for you.