Men's Wisdom Work

Men's Wisdom Work Training men (self-identified) to radically improve their capacity for relational intimacy, consciou

There is a gap between the man you deeply want to be and the man you actually show up as every day. Most men try to thin...
01/26/2026

There is a gap between the man you deeply want to be and the man you actually show up as every day. Most men try to think their way across that gap. That is a painful mistake.

We want to know that our presence actually matters, that we are a consequential force in our own lives, rather than just bystanders to our own potential.

You want to be emotionally met and respected in your relationships. You want your work to reflect your brilliance and have real impact.

These aren’t preferences; they are the fundamental drivers of a man’s life.

And yet, the gap remains.

It’s easy to believe you lack something like wisdom, clarity, or confidence. But in The War of Art, Steven Pressfield names what is really happening: Resistance.

Resistance is the procrastination and self-negotiation that appear the moment you move toward something that is real and meaningful.

It doesn’t mean something is wrong with you; it means you are standing at the edge of meaningful change.

The reality is simple: Action is not the result of change. Action is the cause of it. Waiting for “readiness” is just another form of Resistance.

This is why I am offering the Power and Presence men’s four-month training.

This is a structured, disciplined, and compassionate container designed to help you translate intention into action.

This will give you a structured environment to act consistently in ways that lead to greater success in your relationships, work, and daily life.

This is a game changing training for men.
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01/22/2026

If you want a deep, conscious relationship, start with one inside yourself.

The reason I’m showing these images of men in the work is because they’re not hiding from their own s**t anymore.

They’re facing what most run from.

They’re willing to look directly at their fear, their trauma, the beliefs that keep them small.

They’re confronting the ways they’ve been disconnected from their own hearts, cut off from spirit, stuck in the same patterns.

You cannot wait for life to hand you clarity or confidence; you must do the hard work to build it.

Most men avoid intimacy not because they don’t want love, but because they’re still protecting themselves from pain.

From shame they haven’t even fully recognized yet.

We must be willing to overcome the patterns that our parents passed on to us and see how we’ve been avoiding intimacy, protecting our hearts, and staying collapsed because of old shame that’s subconsciously controlling us.

We invite you to join our upcoming

Power and Presence four-month men’s training.

I’ll be sharing my 30+ years of experience to support men to...

Access greater depth and confidence in relationships, intimacy, and life purpose.

A four-month men’s training focused on increasing your emotional capacity, your relational skills, and embodied masculine leadership.



01/15/2026

There are many places that offer potent material for our growth: issues with money, health, purpose, or work. But it’s relationship that offers us our deepest healing.

It’s the ultimate mirror. Not just to our beauty, but to our shadow, our wounds, our issues, and our fears.

It’s incredibly challenging to be in a relationship with someone who can’t see their own stuff. They may even identify as a conscious person, but if they can’t see their own issues, it becomes even harder.

Your work is to stay with yourself. To keep working on your own piece. To own your challenges. To take responsibility for what you bring. That’s the path.

Join us for our upcoming powerful four month men’s training, power and presence Men’s Group
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01/09/2026

Lately, I have been crying more than usual. I lost a dear friend, and the grief has hit me hard in a way that has deeply opened my heart.

It has also had me reflecting on something we rarely talk about. We generally accept that it is okay for men to cry in moments of death or major loss, but outside of those moments, a man’s grief is still often viewed as weakness.

This is not only about men. It is shaped by outdated beliefs held by many people, including some women, about what strength in a man is supposed to look like.

Over the years, I have spoken with many men who have not cried in ten or even twenty years. Recently, I sat with a man who had not cried in two decades while carrying grief for brothers he lost in war. That is not just sadness. That is a heavy emotional burden to hold alone for that long.

So I want to be clear. Expressing sadness, shedding tears, and allowing grief to move through you are natural human responses. They are not signs of weakness.

Honoring your emotional life is healthy, deeply human, and necessary for long-term emotional wellbeing.


01/02/2026

This is a powerful reminder to love our sons.
More than anything else, that is what we pass on.

It’s not the lessons we lecture or the strength we demand.
It’s the love they feel in our full presence.





12/17/2025

I love this man’s calm deep delivery of a very touchy subject.

When a man feels genuine feminine appreciation, it nourishes his inner world.

When it’s absent for too long, something in him slowly dims.
Shiva without Shakti



Join our free 21-Day P@rn Detox Challenge.Most men don’t think about the damage their habitual p@rn use causes.The more ...
12/12/2025

Join our free 21-Day P@rn Detox Challenge.

Most men don’t think about the damage their habitual p@rn use causes.

The more unconscious, we are about it, the more we reinforce the loop.

The more imbalanced we feel, the more we reach for the very thing that drains us even further.

It becomes a cycle of tension → escape → release → crash… repeated until a man forgets what real clarity even feels like.

And beneath the habit?

Shame.

Isolation.

A hidden sense that you’re living below your potential.

It’s not a curse — you’re caught in a habitual tendency, one that plugs directly into your vital life-force and s*xual energy. And this loop can be interrupted.

When you stop feeding the pattern, you conserve your vital life-force energy — the same energy that fuels discipline, intimacy, confidence, creativity, and purpose. In yogic terms, this is your prana, your inner fire. When it’s scattered, you feel dull. When it’s contained, you feel powerful again.

If you’re ready to cut the noise, reclaim your energy, and start 2026 with strength and integrity…

Join the free 21-Day P@rn Detox Challenge.

• Daily practices

• Private & anonymous

• Zero judgment

• A clean container to get your clarity and energy back

We start now.

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Don’t wait for another year to pass — this is your moment to reclaim your power.


10/31/2025

Group 7 on IG be
lot of people here on Instagram haven’t even heard about Group 7.
It started over on TikTok, but what I think is cool about it is people were actually slowing down — taking a second to connect.
Not trying to be perfect, not chasing likes, just showing up real.
And honestly, it reminded me that even through a screen, we can still feel each other.

10/17/2025

I kept failing in relationship.
Fear and anxiety ran my life.
I doubted my own value.
Being in space with men doing the work changed everything.

🔥 Fire in the Heart – Men’s Retreat
A weeklong deep dive into the heart of men’s work.
Yelapa, Mexico | 🗓 November 9–15, 2025
This is the most powerful retreat we offer.
It’s a dojo of deep consciousness practice

🔗 Link in bio. Register now and save $500.
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10/11/2025

Men. Men. Men. Brothers.
Do this with your feminine partner so she feels truly heard and understood—so you can move through conflict and repair more quickly.
This is the key. This is the foundation. Practice it and let me know how it goes for you.

Steps:
1. Acknowledge — Repeat back what they’re saying and acknowledge all of it.
2. Empathize — Really try to feel what they’re feeling. Say, “I can imagine that may be difficult.”
3. More Clarity — Ask, “Is there anything else that would be helpful for me to know?”
4. Invite a Request — Ask, “Is there something specific I could do that would help you feel more seen and heard?”

10/09/2025

TODAY THURSDAY OCT 9TH -FREE 20 min- MENS COUNCIL SESSION ON FB Live 12PM PT

Hey brothers, join me and my co-teacher, the brilliant Saul David Raye, tomorrow at 12 PM PST for a free 20–25 minute live men’s conversation on Working With Fear & Contraction in Relationship.
� Saul and I will open space for men to explore how to stay open in the heat — to meet fear not as an enemy, but as a doorway to deeper connection and authentic leadership.
This isn’t a lecture. It’s a live men's council session
�Thursday at 12 PM PST

Theme: Working With Fear & Contraction in Relationship
�Bring your curiosity and your heart.

Many spiritual men might think they’re doing just fine hanging out in their comfort zone of positivity, love, and light,...
10/18/2024

Many spiritual men might think they’re doing just fine hanging out in their comfort zone of positivity, love, and light, but deep down, they know something’s missing. One ‘missing piece’ is your disowned dark side.

Yes, light and especially love are crucial, but a man on the path must learn to expand into the darker range of his emotional life.

Your darker side might be anger (not rage), a fierce edge, or your inner badass who just doesn’t give a f*ck. Think levels of ‘I’ll do me, no apologies.

Your darker aspects must be expressed, tempered with heart and awareness- not suggesting reactive-destructive anger.

If you’re a card-carrying nice guy and can’t access darker aspects like conscious anger or fierce energy, you’re cutting yourself off from essential emotions that fuel decisiveness and courage.

Without them, you’ll hesitate, second-guess yourself, or avoid tough decisions. Tapping into that fierceness allows you to take bold action and face challenges head-on—qualities that command respect and effective leadership.

These darker aspects are a fu***ng essential ingredient in developing true confidence.

Men with nice guy-pleaser habits, can you relate?

Ignoring your dark expression isn’t just holding you back; it’s making you less attractive. Women don’t want a ‘nice guy’ who has no edge—they want a man who can activate his full range of emotions.

Men w/ imbalanced darker emotional expressions ( reactive anger or hyper-masculine), most likely have shame about it which can cause them to repress them further

You might have been taught that anger is unacceptable. But your disowned darker emotions are always under the surface waiting to be accessed.

Embrace and liberate your darker emotions.

This is not an intellectual process but work based in the body.

GET SUPPORT to work your process- don’t try this alone-There needs to be a deep trust to do this.





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