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03/18/2020

When Does S*x End?

I was having a discussion with a client, A man on a journey of s*xual healing and we'd been looking at shifting some of what he believed about s*x. I gave him some things to think about, and one of these was to take or**sm away.

From this he asked the question, when does s*x end?

Most s*xual experiences have a progression, there's a beginning, a middle and an end.
For most of us this follows a pattern, we do the same thing in the same way.
The pattern says that we do works, or we think it works, which is more often the case, it's what we know, or it's our comfort zone.
And until we become aware of what we're doing, that's what we do. So there's a beginning, a middle and an end.

For most of us the emphasis is on the end. This is the focus, this is the most important part of the experience. This is the criterion by which we judge a s*xual encounter as being successful or not.
And this end is or**sm.

Let's look at this.
And of the first shifts we need to make in this is starting to see s*x as more of an energy experience than a physical experience.

When it's purely physical of course or**sm is going to be the end.
Well, is it, or is that simply an expression of a pattern and a belief?
An or**sm is often just the right stimulation in the right way at the right time.
And once that's happened we're done.
What would happen if we changed what we thought about that and made or**sm a part of the experience rather than the end? What would happen if we didn't stop there?
What would happen if we allowed the or**sm and then changed the way we touched, breathed?
What would happen if we could shift our perception of or**sm from a physical experience to an energy experience?
What would happen if we explored the or**sm, first being aware of the feelings and the sensations, and then following them in our bodies, would they be a wave of energy, of colour, of sound, where would it go, how would it feel, what does it do?

And then a bigger shift in perspective that says if this is an energy experience can I allow the energy, the feelings, the sensations to build in me, can I consciously build them, and then and then, keep them inside, not release them?
Can I allow that energy to keep moving within me?
Can I direct it, use it, for pleasure, for health, for healing, for creativity, for meditation, for intimacy , for just being, for just having this delicious vitality buzzing inside of me?
Can I not have an or**sm?
Can I change the pattern, the belief of how this should end to see how it could be?
Can I make it an experience of exploration, of my body, my mind, my heart, my energy, my relationship?

What would happen, what could happen, with this shift?
When you start exploring this many things will happen.
One of them is that s*x doesn't necessarily end.

And with a much bigger perspective, we transform this energy into making love, making love with life as a way of being.

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