03/30/2018
I think a lot of people are convinced that health coaches never stray from their nutrition and fitness regimes. I know that to be....FALSE! We are real people, and we need to lay on the couch and eat donuts too. Just not every day. I always tell people that it's not what you do sometimes, it's what you do (or don't do) every day that matters.
For instance, if you only showered once every couple weeks you would be dirty and smell weird. It's not like you sit there reasoning with yourself "Oh, I'll start showering next Monday. I already smell so I will just keep smelling worse until Monday - what will another 4 days matter now that I already smell?" No, you just shower consistently because it is good for you (thank you for doing that btw). And you don't fall into a deep pit of despair and beat yourself up if you were tired and missed a shower. You just wake up, turn on the water and get in like it's no big deal.
The chocolate brownie concrete from Sheridan's that I look forward to? I don't feel guilty while I'm eating it, or even after I finish it. Why? Because I plan it ahead of time so I can enjoy every single bite (and I don't order the "mini" - why bother?!). When I am hitting my protein goal daily, getting a lot of veggies and staying within a good calorie range for me, it gives me the freedom to enjoy a brownie concrete or a doughnut sometimes - and I know it won't wreck me. Yes, sometimes I do go overboard and need to reel myself back in. It's just part of being human and not expecting myself to be perfect.
There will always be birthday celebrations, holidays, and vacations - and YES you should enjoy these things here and there and not see it as failing (but do remember that everyone's birthday isn't YOUR birthday - we all know it's always "someone's" birthday at work!)
It's a total game changer when you reach the mindset shift of not labeling foods as "good" or "bad". Progress happens faster when you know how to work everything in, enjoy things without guilt, and get right back on track without skipping a beat.