01/11/2025
💜As a mom I’ve often said I would die for my kids, any parent can likely echo that sentiment. A few years ago I came across the statement /question most parents say they would die for their kids, but a bigger question is would you live for them?
✨What does that mean? Would you do the work so that you can show up for them in the moments they most need you as the best version of yourself?
📚What is the work? Taking a real look within, shining a light on the dark pieces that we try to hide but seem to come out in the worst moments. Knowing what triggers you and why, so that you can respond to them in a healthy way. I once heard the statement -heal so that you don’t bleed all over those who didn’t cut you. It took me a long time to make sense of it.
📔Julian gifted me this book for Christmas that’s my oldest son for those who don’t know. It’s been interesting reflecting back on my life, it’s given me a great reminder to take the time to appreciate how far I have come, both as a woman and as a mother. I’ve always tried to be the best I can be for my kids and I will never stop trying, these days I am also reminding myself to also be my own best friend as well.
🫶🏼 I am so grateful for the relationships I have with my boys, I’ve worked so hard to keep them close and grounded while preparing them for the world so that they know how to fly when it’s time to leave the nest. 🪹
