12/10/2025
Reminder for anyone who needs it: You’re allowed to protect your time, energy, and emotional well-being this season—and always.
We know it's not always easy to express your needs without overexplaining, apologizing, or creating conflict. If you've gotten used to silencing yourself instead of speaking up, try out these responses when you need to set a boundary on behalf of your own wellbeing:
🎄 When you need to decline an invitation:
“I’d love to see you, but I don’t have the capacity this week.”
“Thank you for thinking of me, but I need to sit this one out."
✋ When someone pushes for details:
“It’s just a full week, and I need to protect my downtime.”
“It’s nothing personal—I just need a quieter pace right now. I appreciate you for understanding."
🧊 When a conversation becomes uncomfortable:
“This is a hard topic for me right now. Can we shift gears?"
“I want to keep tonight lighthearted—do you mind if we change the subject?"
💞 When you need emotional space:
“I care about you, and I need a little space to recharge.”
“I want to be present when we talk, so I’ll reach out when I’m in a better headspace.”
❤️ When you need to honor your own grief, stress, or overwhelm:
“This season feels heavy for me, so I’m taking things slowly. I appreciate your patience."
“I may be quieter than usual—I’m navigating a lot internally.”
Boundaries likes these aren't walls. They’re invitations to be in relationship in a way that’s sustainable and honest.