Cristy Heck

I help people navigate transition and change in their life.

02/15/2026

Blended doesn't have to mean broken. It just takes intention.

What legacy are you creating in your family relationships?

02/14/2026

What my kids taught me about love ❤️.....

"As far back as I can remember, she makes seafood gumbo every year on Christmas Eve." - Tyler

"The thing that held the most constant over the years would be Christmas Eve at her house." - Orin

"There's so many unexpected things in life—that's one of the things that is a constant. There's a safety around that." - Gabrielle

Love isn't just what you say. It's what you do. Consistently. Even when it's hard. Even when you're tired. Even when you wonder if anyone notices.

Show up. Be consistent. Be present.

That's love around the table.

That's love in a family.

That's love that lasts.

Happy Valentine's Day to everyone who shows love by showing up. ❤️

02/12/2026

"One of the biggest takeaways was watching two people co-parent their grown children so well—and not only co-parent, but have a friendship. Watching Orin's dad have a beautiful friendship with Wallace. That was the coolest thing."

Listen, it wasn't always like that.

It took years. It took work. It took a lot of choosing grace over grudges and choosing my kids over my ego.
But what Gabrielle walked into that first Christmas?

That wasn't luck. That was the result of parents deciding our kids mattered more than our hurt feelings.

And now my daughter-in-law gets to see what healthy co-parenting looks like.
My grandkids get to see it. And that ripple effect?

That's the real legacy.

Blended doesn't have to mean broken. It just takes intention.

What legacy are you creating in your relationships?

02/10/2026

We all had that one house growing up—the place where everyone ended up, where you always felt welcome.

What's the one feeling you remember most from that place?

02/09/2026

Orin said something that made me realize: It worked.

"Our house was always the gathering point. In college, my house was always the place where everybody hung out. I've just gotten accustomed to people being at my house."

That's what I wanted.

I didn't want my kids to grow up thinking entertaining is stressful or that having people over is a burden. I wanted them to see it as normal. As life. As just what you do.

And now? Orin can have people over and not stress about it. He's comfortable with friends on his couch. With people in his space.

That's the real inheritance—not the china or the recipes. It's the comfort with people in your space. The belief that community is worth the effort.

Your kids are watching. They're learning what hospitality looks like by watching YOU.

What are they learning?

01/30/2026

Being available is not the same as being perfect!

Keep hospitality easy by thinking "what do I need to do to be more available?" You plan for other things - why not plan for connection!

01/28/2026

🥰 Elevate good and you attract more good! It's a Biblical principle - think on things that are of a good report! Yes, there is reality but in all things there is a path to goodness!

01/27/2026

This might be one of the best compliments I've ever gotten. 🥹

Because here's the thing: Hospitality isn't a performance. It's not something you turn on when guests arrive and turn off when they leave.

It's who you are. How you treat people. How you make them feel. All the time.

When your kids say "you're the same person all the time," that means authenticity won. That means they didn't grow up watching you fake it or put on a show.

They just watched you care about people. Consistently. Whether anyone was watching or not.

That's the kind of host I want to be. The kind of person I want to be.

Not perfect. Just real. All the time.

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Orange Beach, AL

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