02/25/2026
#5 is the best decision of my life 𤣠To give a little back story on a couple of theseā¦
1.) my mental health was the hardest part of the first twenty weeks. Until I got on an SSRI that helped me feel more normal consistently, I was avoiding friends, breaking down for no reason, and stuck in cycle of pregnancy and anxiety-induced nausea. Beyond that, Iāve stuck to my half Unisom and B6 as my tried and true best fix for morning sickness, heartburn meds, you name it. Iām not going to suffer through if thereās a safe fix.
2.) naptime is sacredā if I can unload, fold clothes or do anything else while sheās awake, I try to! Iād rather use naptime as 100% me time and recharge.
3.) continued pushing weightā last time I was so nervous about diastasis and uncertain about what was āsafeā that I didnāt push weights like I could have. This time I still watch for signs of poor core control and modify when I need to, but I know my body needs to be the strongest itās ever been to handle the end of pregnancy and the demand of labor. Iām still hitting PRs and still lifting to failure.
4.) pregnancy pillowā I swear by pillow! It comes in two pieces and doesnāt take up half the bed. Itās easy to customize to fit the bump and really helped keep my hips in alignment to improve SI pain. Comment āSLEEPā and Iāll send you the link!
5.) took naps before anything elseā Iām prone to feeling guilty for sleeping during the day, but there were points during this pregnancy that Iād feel physically sick by the end of the day I was so tired. Taking a nap helped me show up as a better wife and mom, and it was worth sacrificing some other things for.
What changes did you make to your later pregnancies? What do you wish someone would have told you before your second?? Accepting any and all advice š