10/31/2025
You know that tone you use when someone asks how you’re doing? The one that sounds cheerful, helpful, capable, and nothing like the truth? That’s not your voice. That’s your nervous system doing PR.
When you grow up equating safety with keeping everyone comfortable, your tone becomes armor. You manage emotions like you’re on the clock; polite, professional, and dying inside.
At Very Good Mind, we don’t want your polished version. We want the one that exhales. The one that doesn’t owe anyone calm. The one that finally sounds like you.
Because “I’m fine” is just trauma with good customer service skills.
verygoodmind.com
Providing virtual EMDR therapy in Florida.
Contact us for a free 15-minute consultation