12/24/2025
You’ve written the text you’ll never send. Replayed the moment you’d finally be understood. Waited for the apology that would make it make sense. But it never comes because the kind of person you needed them to be doesn’t exist in your story.
That’s not failure. That’s grief.
The EMDR effect is what happens when your nervous system stops needing the past to fix itself. You stop chasing closure from people who couldn’t give it then and still can’t now. You start creating peace without their permission.
At Very Good Mind, we don’t help you “get over it.” We help you get free from it.
Because closure isn’t something they give you. It’s something you give yourself when you finally stop waiting.
verygoodmind.com
Providing virtual EMDR therapy in Florida.
Contact us for a free 15-minute consultation