Spicing Up Your Marriage

03/19/2025

03/19/2025

We're relaunching soon! ❤️❤️Stay tuned to see how we're spicing things up.🌶️🌶️

04/29/2020

Is time to adjust your expectations. Life as you know it has changed. For the past year, my husband and I had been working in launching our home inspection business. This was an investment of time studying and money to purchase equipment. This dream came crumbling down when we found out that being an inspector was a non essential job during these quarantine days. We had our launch date set and we were ready. Everything came to a bumpy halt. It was heart breaking and disappointing. We had to think fast to survive and put in action our plan B. My husband had no choice but to return to truck driving. In the midst of millions who have lots their jobs, we were thankful that somehow God had mercy on us and a driving opportunity became available immediately. Truck driving is an essential job. April has been a month of grieving for us. We quickly had to learn to adjust our expectations. We evaluated what was important for our family during this moment. We considered all our realistic options that we had at hand. We learned to quiet our fears and found comfort in God. We are embracing life one day at a time, because thinking about the future is overwhelming right now. We find comfort that better days are ahead, because we will do whatever it takes to survive life right now. We will dream again when the time comes. We don't have to rush to that place. Each day that we live, we will embrace what it brings by adjusting our expectations. How about you? How are you adjusting your expectations?

04/28/2020

Is the quarantine hurting your marriage? It is obvious that stuck in the house together has brought up some unexpected issues that are bringing stress to your relationship. Here are a couple of tips to help you navigate these last few days of staying at home. First, separate time to be alone. This means put the kids to sleep, silence your phone and create a relaxed environment for a positive conversation. For example; served your favorite drinks, put soft music and take several deep breath before starting the conversation. Second, create your own His & Hers conversation cards of topics that are relevant to both of you. Third, take turns speaking and listening. End it reassuring each other that no matter what has happened you are still in the same team together. Life as normal might have changed but the love and friendship you have for each other is still there. Let us know how it goes. Spice it up!

04/21/2020

Is your relationship suffering of cabin fever during this quarantine? Take a deep breath and remember it soon will be over.

04/20/2020

We are relaunching our page within the next couple of days. So much has happened in our marriage and we can’t wait to share all the lessons learned. Yay!!!❤️

11/18/2019

Good Night Kisses...help you sleep rested. Spice it up!

11/15/2019

Your bedroom is your love nest; a sanctuary for love. It is the place where you can rest your body and disconnect from the stresses of this world. Don't bring the noise of technology and social media to bed. It is a big turn off for your spouse. Your bedroom is to connect face to face with each other. Spice it up!

07/25/2019

A good marriage begins with God.