Danielle Nicole Coaching, LLC

01/15/2026

Do not recommend books on communication to a couple in crisis!! and stay in your lane, please!!! betrayalrecovery

01/12/2026

Another personal story from me for the Blog today!

God has me sharing more personal testimonies since I have started our churchwide fast. I know there is power in our testimonies to glorify HIM and point to HIS faithfulness!

So here you go! Share your thoughts if you read it!

Welcome to the Blog! Happy Monday! I do not know about you, but I am SO ready for Spring! I have appreciated the semi-hibernation that winter allows, but I am starting to get antsy!

01/12/2026

🔥 the world sees this much differently..

It gets twisted around that to “hold someone accountable” (calling out sin or bad behavior) as “judging”..

It’s called “truth telling” and let us not forget the truth is what sets us free!!!

So to see someone in shackles, deceived, lost, and to NOT hold accountable or speak the truth in love … that… is not loving.

That is enabling.
That is seeing someone is chains and saying, I see you but as long as you are happy in those chains I’ll be happy with you …

The truth is, sometimes people are “happy” in chains because it’s familiar, it’s comfortable, it’s easier in some way, or because it’s covering up the pain that led to the chains to begin with (trauma, shame, generational curses)

Don’t say you are loving if you are co-signing sin or bad behavior. That’s NOT love!!!

01/11/2026

sometimes the hardest part isn’t the betrayal… it’s living with the lack of empathy afterward.

If you’re reading this and thinking, “I wish he could understand what this did to me,” this is exactly why RITE exists.

RITE (Restoring Intimacy Through Empathy) is a men’s group designed to help husbands move beyond “I’m sorry” into real emotional presence, understanding, and repair—with structure, coaching, and accountability.

If you want something concrete to share with him, send this reel and say:
“This is what I’ve been trying to explain. Would you consider this?”
RITE Men's group application open Now!

Fill out the Form here> https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScydW4gnTFty0QTmQBHf91A1W0PgAx1iI0l2FYBPYl8pHz10Q/viewform

01/10/2026

Blog post on some of my personal story!!
If you don’t like vulnerability, please skip this one!!
https://daniellenicolecoaching.com/blog

01/10/2026

Bonus Blog Post This Week. This one is pretty darn personal, if you aren't into vulnerability, you probably will want to skip this one!

I am kinda feeling this may be part of a book one day! I have SOO many books I want to write, but maybe this one actually gets done

(From my personal social media page- I wanted to share with you!)

01/09/2026

Forgiveness is something God works in our hearts.
Trust is something that must be rebuilt in real life.

You can forgive without pretending the hurt didn’t happen.
You can forgive while still needing boundaries.
You can forgive and still require time, consistency, and safety before trust is rebuilt.

Forgiveness is an internal decision.
Trust is a relational process.

Both matter — but they are not a package deal.

01/09/2026

If you’re a wife reading this and thinking,
“I wish he could understand what this has done to me…”
this video may help bridge that gap.

Betrayal doesn’t just break trust — it rewires the nervous system.
What looks like anger, distance, or “never moving on” is often trauma responding to lost safety.

This is exactly why I created the RITE Men’s Group
(Restoring Intimacy Through Empathy).

RITE is for men who genuinely want to understand:
• why their wife reacts the way she does
• how trauma changes the brain and body
• what empathy actually looks like after betrayal
• how to show up without defensiveness, minimizing, or shutdown

Wives: If you’ve struggled to explain your experience without it turning into conflict, this video can help put words to what you’re living.
Husbands: If you want to be part of your wife’s healing — but don’t know how — RITE exists to guide you step by step.

This isn’t about shame.
It’s about learning a new way of showing up.

If this video resonates, consider sharing it with your spouse as a starting place — and if he’s open, RITE is where the deeper work begins.

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScydW4gnTFty0QTmQBHf91A1W0PgAx1iI0l2FYBPYl8pHz10Q/viewform

01/06/2026

There’s a popular message right now that says: “Just let them.”

And while that may work for everyday disappointments, it often falls apart in betrayal recovery.

Because when safety has been broken, letting go isn’t simple — it’s scary.

You don’t need more pressure to “detach correctly.”
You need wisdom, safety, and support that understands trauma and faith.

Today’s blog gently unpacks when “let them” helps… and when it can actually harm.

👉 Read “Let Them”… Unless
https://daniellenicolecoaching.com/blog/f/let-them-unless

01/05/2026

By January 5th, a lot of women are already thinking,
“I should feel more motivated than this.”

If betrayal has left you tired, numb, or unsure who you even are anymore—
you’re not behind. You’re healing.

This framework isn’t about setting goals.
It’s about regaining orientation when trauma has knocked you off center.

Who. What. When. Where. Why.
Not all at once. Just enough to find your footing again.

It’s not about perfection.
It’s about direction—and safety—as you move forward.