07/06/2025
It’s heartbreaking when you realize that maybe the safest way to live is alone. You get older, and the hope of finding someone solid, someone to build a real life with, starts to fade. People are too self-absorbed, caught in the streets, hung up on an ex, or trapped in their past. Or worse, you meet someone who drifts into your life, disrupts your peace just enough to keep you hooked, but never fully chooses you - never stays, but never lets you go either.
We’re living in a generation where toxicity is normalized, where settling for chaos feels easier than holding out for something real. And the saddest part? Staying single starts to feel like the only way to protect your sanity, your heart, your peace because the alternative is playing a game where no one follows the rules.
Real relationships built on honesty, commitment, and real communication feel almost mythical now. And the loneliest realization is knowing exactly what you have to offer, but realizing there’s no one out there who’ll truly value it. No table to bring it to. Just empty chairs.
