11/29/2025
Here’s the straight, practical guidance parents rarely get — this is what actually matters at that first neuropsych appointment.
Keep it simple, focused, and make sure you walk out knowing what the plan is.
Key questions you should ask
1. “What exactly are you evaluating for?”
Don’t accept vague answers. You want to know whether they’re assessing learning disorders, ADHD, executive functioning, anxiety, autism, language issues, etc.
2. “Which tests will you use, and why?”
A good neuropsych can explain their test selection in plain English.
If they can’t, that’s a red flag.
3. “How will the results help us get support at school?”
You want the recommendations to drive real services, not just a diagnosis on paper. Ask how the findings translate into accommodations and interventions.
4. “Will you evaluate reading, writing, math, AND attention/executive skills?”
Many clinics skip major areas. Make sure it’s comprehensive, not a quick screener.
5. “How do you integrate parent and teacher input in the diagnosis?”
A solid evaluation includes home and school perspective. It prevents misdiagnosis.
6. “When will we get results, and how detailed will the report be?”
Make them say it out loud. A real report should include:
• clear diagnosis
• strengths and weaknesses
• school accommodations
• evidence based interventions
• a practical plan
If you only get a two-page summary, that’s not a neuropsych evaluation.
7. “Are you available for follow-up questions once the report comes out?”
Good clinicians don’t disappear after the feedback session.
What you should be ‘asking for’
• A comprehensive evaluation, not a narrowed one.
• A written report that clearly states diagnoses, scores, and specific recommendations.
• Recommendations tailored to your child, not boilerplate text.
• A plan for school advocacy if needed.
What many parents forget to mention
Tell the doctor:
• What is actually happening at home during homework.
• What teachers have said (and what they aren’t saying but you’re seeing).
• What you’re worried about long-term.
Neuropsychs need context. Without it, test data can mislead.
What NOT to worry about
• Don’t coach your daughter. Let her be herself.
• Don’t try to predict the results.
• Don’t stress the “right answers”. These tests aren’t like school.
What to say to your daughter tonight
“Tomorrow isn’t about passing or failing anything. It’s about understanding how your brain works so we can help school feel easier.”
That’s it. She doesn’t need more than that.