06/27/2025
This was hard because I know how deeply sensitive birth and breastfeeding can be and I hate hurting people’s feelings! But these 5 things are true even if they aren’t easy to say or hear, and the nice thing is, we have the ability to learn, pivot, and adapt as mothers.
1. Birth matters. Yes you can still breastfeed successfully after all sorts of births, and no we aren’t always in control of how birth goes. But we almost always have control of where we birth, who’s in the room with us, what the environment is like, and the attitude we bring into the birth space. An oxytocin-laden birth —> prime environment for first latch and a good milk supply.
2. Feeding on demand is best for your supply and your baby. No it’s not always convenient or predictable. Yes you’re allowed to take breaks and ask for help. But that doesn’t mean your baby needs to be trained to a schedule.
3. Movement for mom and baby matters during pregnancy, birth, and breastfeeding. Take deep breaths, get some fresh air, make eye contact with your baby and play with them.
4. Breastfeeding might not be right for every mom, but milk at the breast is best for every baby. Pumped milk is second best. Donor milk is third. Formula is fourth.
5. You matter, too. And your needs are not at odds with your baby’s needs despite how it might feel. You’re both growing and becoming in the postpartum season.
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