Eli Westfall, lmft

09/23/2025

Sometimes the best course of action is compromise. This is Goose. He is wild. We have compromised and we let him chew his bones on the back of the couch. Likewise, in our marriages many times compromise is the only way to solve a problem. We need to learn to listen to each other’s perspectives and make adjustments to our own when appropriate. Find a compromise to solve the solvable. Not all hills are worth dying on.

09/17/2025

Sitting at MCO on our way to Kansas City for a couple days for a business trip for Ronda, that we are going to tag team as a mini birthday getaway. I’m lucky to have her in my life and I look forward to celebrating many many more birthdays with you. HBD, Ronda! 🍰🎂

09/17/2025

It sounds counterintuitive, but to help overcome using behavioral activation techniques we have to remember action precedes motivation. We take action before we ‘feel’ like taking action. Pushing through the lack of motivation with action pushes through the depression.

09/09/2025

Life easily overwhelms and it can feel like we are drowning. Maybe we don't have to.

My strongest swim stroke is the doggie paddle. Go ahead and make fun of me all you want. I deserve it. I’m not a very strong swimmer, I know. It also doesn’t help I am kind of afraid of…

09/03/2025

We often let fear control our lives, but it doesn't have to. Here are some thoughts on why and what to do about it.

A few years ago, I used to work in the admissions department of a local psychiatric hospital. After working part time for about a year, I went full-time and left a five year stint with the State of…

08/30/2025

I am not one to get ‘start struck’ but I have to admit when I saw Coach Corso at Lake Destiny soccer fields, I became giddy like a little child and threw decorum to the wind and ran up to him, apologized for bothering him and told him I couldn’t let him go without a photo… to which he happily obliged. won’t be the same without him, college football won’t be the same without him. Not just as a coach and celebrity but as a stand up guy who is just a good guy. Enjoy your rest and maybe I’ll run into around town again.

08/28/2025

Happy birthday to ‘mommy’s little precious’. This guys has given 8 awesome years and we hope for at least 8 more… maybe we can just slow down a little bit when he gets out of the yard.

08/28/2025

One of my favorite dudes on the planet. Happy birthday Hayden. You have made me a better dad and man.

08/13/2025

This year (2025) has been a milestone year for me in a couple ways. I had some big goals which I was finally able to accomplish this year. As you might imagine, this feels very good. But it also leaves me with somewhat of an empty feeling. Now these goals have been realized and accomplished, all the time and energy I have put into accomplishing my goals finds itself without an avenue for expression....

This year (2025) has been a milestone year for me in a couple ways. I had some big goals which I was finally able to accomplish this year. As you might imagine, this feels very good. But it also le…

08/13/2025

In our journey to being the healthiest we can be, having a strong support network can’t be underrated. Ronda has been my biggest supporter through everything. I would not be who I am without her.

07/24/2025

Change is hard for many reasons for many people. While each of us likely have different reasons change is hard, the common denominator here is that change is hard. Head to eliwestfall.com to read more.

Change is hard for many reasons for many people. While each of us likely have different reasons change is hard, the common denominator here is that change is hard. And we don’t like it. Maybe, I’m …

06/12/2025

Some thoughts on finding meaning and purpose in our lives.

Where do we look when we want to find meaning and purpose in our lives? Do we look to religion or spirituality? Do we look to our careers? Do we look to our accomplishments? Do we look to the legac…